Why would I feel this way? I saw him from across the room and wanted to stay as far away from him as possible. I don't know why. He was well dressed and I had never met him before. Is he a mirror of the things I hate about myself? I felt that he wasn't liked, even though he was talking to a few people and seemed nice. I just wish he wasn't there. I got this horrible feeling in my stomach. I asked myself if someone felt like this about me, that would hurt. People have felt like this towards me over time. They did their best to ignore me. I sensed that they didn't want to be around me. I never met this guy. What else could it be? Does he remind me of someone In hate? Has this ever happened to you?
2007-09-29 01:38:34 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
In my head I kept saying, please stay back and DON'T Find me attractive. Please.
2007-09-29 01:49:03 · update #1
I didn't even speak one word to him. IMAGINE SOMEONE FEELING THAT WAY ABOUT YOU AND YOU SENSING IT.
2007-09-29 01:50:56 · update #2
the devil has so much control over ur thinking, now what did the angel say?
2007-09-29 02:23:07 · answer #1 · answered by miss understand 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep, this has happened to me and many people I know.
Most people call it a sixth sense or gut feeling, and while you can't base everything on it, it's wise to pay attention to it, especially when dealing with people.
Attraction or repulsion towards others is a combination of many things, some of them conscious (such as visual or verbal cues), others subconscious (negative memories of similar people).
It may be that this guy was standing and moving in a way the sent out a strong negative message to you, while at the same time he (subconsciously) reminded you of someone you have had a negative experience with in the past.
The result was a very strong reaction, stronger than usual.
Staying away from this guy is the sensible decision, at least until (if ever) you know more about him. You may hear from friends that he is a great guy, well liked, etc, and may even meet him and decide your first impression was incorrect.
BUT, until you know more, rely on your instinct and avoid trouble!
Cheers :-)
2007-09-29 02:16:06 · answer #2 · answered by thing55000 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-10 00:31:13 · answer #3 · answered by petrosino 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course it has happened to me. I chalk it up to intuition and or instinct. and would follow that instinctive feeling and just stay clear of that person, usually the intuition is right on target and there is something about that person that could hurt harm or just plain not mesh with your personality. so co=exist but stay clear. We are only human afterall and if its not love at first sight, it will probably Never be love LOL,,,
2007-09-29 01:45:33 · answer #4 · answered by KatGotHerTongue 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it happened to me & it did no good at all.
i think that you somewhat remember something about him about your past. it can also be that he reminds you of someone.
you will be the one to exactly tell how you feel about him.
a girl also confide on me about that kind of feeling & guess what, she end up falling for the guy, because the feeling she has was attraction and the repulsive action you are showing is sometimes your defense mechanism, we don't know why, only you can answer that.
2007-09-29 02:02:04 · answer #5 · answered by A.Ryan 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you were picking up "bad vibes". Some people are very perceptive and sensitive to things like this.
I would not worry about not speaking to him, or etc, go with your gut feelings. It might be your self protection.
2007-09-29 05:12:19 · answer #6 · answered by nowyouknow 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your subconscious mind is always busy processing thousands of details not evident to your conscious mind. Go with it, avoid the person, but don't make any big deal about it.
2007-10-03 01:36:29 · answer #7 · answered by susiegasser 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Having been with a lot of abusers,controllers, cheaters and just plain jerks I know chalk that up to my loser radar and run! instinct is good
2007-10-02 07:30:24 · answer #8 · answered by billie b 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Very possible you were experiencing intuition. Maybe there was something wrong there. go with your gut instinct.
2007-09-29 01:47:04 · answer #9 · answered by Aloha_Ann 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If i dislike someone, there's always a reason. don't you remember that old phrase "Don't judge a book by its' cover"?
2007-09-29 01:42:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋