It's shcool holidays at the mo, and I've decided to try and change my personality and attitude. I'm always so loud and freaky and crazy. It really annoys me because I know that it'll stop me from making more friends and it intimidates and freaks out guys. I want to make myself alot calmer and in control of the words that I speak. I don't want to come across as a mentally unstable girl. Can anyone give me tips on how to train myself to make sure my emotions and excitement don't come out all at once or go into overdrive?? Thankyou!
2007-09-29 00:50:52 · 5 answers · asked by boyofgeorge 1 in Health ➔ Mental Health
You sound like to me, that you are growing up a bit, it really has nothing to do with your personality..You just want to come across as sweeter, and that is probably who you really are to begin with..Because you are already aware of it, you don't need anyone's help, you are going to do it..Just catch yourself, whenever you start to be boisterous, and try to observe how you act, to yourself, and think of how you would judge that person, if you were watching her. Good luck and I bet you find you have friends swamping to you...just tell them it was a 'stage' you were going through..lol..and oh, for those who tell you 'we miss the old you'..don't pay attention, sometimes, our 'friends' don't want us to get ahead
2007-09-29 01:15:22 · answer #1 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing is that you shouldn't change the essential part of what makes you unique and interesting just to please others. Its good that you want to address the parts of behaviour that intimidate and alienate other people but remember that you can be a thoughtful and fun extrovert if you act rationally and with kindness. Think before you speak and act with a calmness and compassion to everyone you meet.
2007-09-29 01:50:31 · answer #2 · answered by Cat S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask the Lord to come into your life and change you.
2 Corinthians 5:17 - Therefore if any man be in Christ, he is a new creature: old things are passed away; behold, all things are become new.
John 3:16
2007-09-29 06:18:56 · answer #3 · answered by Cee T 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're personality is who you are. You shuoldn't pretend to be something you are not. Don't you want to be with people who loike you for you. Just be yourself. You are sure to find people who are interested in you. Although if you want to tone it down a bit take it easy and take things one at a time. Mellow out!
2007-09-29 00:58:58 · answer #4 · answered by Crazy Legs 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
i think you better not change your personality... i think being freaky and crazy is the thing that keeps the boyz interested... my cloze boy friends used to tell me that calm girls are so0o boring... and how about your close friends now??? do you think they would still be your friend if you change your personality? i guess not... cuz you're not the person they used to know... they're not gonna catch up that easily... yeah... maybe you could still be friends... but somehow, your closeness may be lessened...
2007-09-29 01:52:09 · answer #5 · answered by pink crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋