i'm scared about not knowing anyone in the new area, about having to move the kids to new schools, about everything, but moving house is something that i really want to do.
How do i stop my fear holding me back?
2007-09-29 00:07:11 · 6 answers · asked by ? 6 in Health ➔ Mental Health
the only way to combat our fears is by facing up to them and dealing with them.dont let fear stop you from moving forward in life.you obviously feel that this move would be a positive step for you and your family.see it as an adventure, as your kids probably will too.think of the positive benefits from moving.kids are very adaptable when it comes to change, dont let your fears rub off onto them.treat it like a fresh start, and push your fears aside when you feel them creeping in.youll soon meet new friends and wonder why youd worried so much.good luck.
2007-09-29 01:54:20 · answer #1 · answered by Ramona 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your fear is totally normal.
Moving house is the second to top cause of stress, the top cause is death of a spouse.
Look at the positives, the excitement of a new house and a new start, making new friends, your kids will make friends and settle in quicker than you I bet!
Planning is the key - get everything in order and all will go well.
Good Luck.
2007-09-29 00:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There is no chance for you to change your choice, so the thing is to solve this. Don't worry, just smile and make friends. Everything will go smoothly as long as you are friendly. There will definitely be someone nice in the new area. Your kids depend on you, too. You need to be strong for them.
2007-09-29 00:40:58 · answer #3 · answered by *azure* 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try to look at it from the optimistic point of view. it is a fresh start, new friends, it might bring much better fun and friends to you...We all fear leaving our little nests sometimes, but sometimes, it is much better when we go somewhere else...just take a chance, and go for it..and good luck!
2007-09-29 00:14:14 · answer #4 · answered by MotherKittyKat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
change your fear into the excitement and promise of a new life
2007-09-29 00:10:18 · answer #5 · answered by civil_seismic_eng 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
pray for ur god
2007-09-29 00:10:51 · answer #6 · answered by TLPreferBlue29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋