What do you think of this story of relational violence and how a girl responded to it with violence?

Question

http://www.violentacres.com/archives/89/how-to-be-a-girl-bully

Also, what do you think of this woman's description of how she responded to it with actual physical violence? Do you think under the circumstances it was warranted? Not warranted? Would it have been preferable for her to use relational violence in return rather than physical violence? Also any other general opinions on the relational violence told about here, has it ever happened to you etc.

Here are some excerpts from the article:

Instead, Wendy gathered her harpy friends around her in a circle so they could whisper and giggle and shoot nasty looks in my direction. If I approached them, all confidence, and challenged them to say what they had to say about me to my face, they’d roll their eyes and insist, “We weren’t even talking about you. Paranoid much?” But they were.

If I bent over to grab something out of my locker, they’d oh so accidentally bump into me and knock my head against the metal. When I turned around, furious, they’d say, “Oh SO SORRY! Didn’t see you standing there!” and then they’d scurry away vainly trying to suppress grins behind their hands.

The main goal of Girl Bullying is to completely destroy your self esteem. It is not enough for girl bullies to convince others that they have gained the upper hand with you. They want to convince you that you’re a loser. They want to use all the people they manipulated into disliking you as evidence that you’re a failure and a totally unlikable person. They want you to go home and cry into your pillow and think, “Wow. Wendy must be right about me. Just look at all the people that agree with her.”

Answer 1

I've seen this before, because it was included in another question or answer here.
___In principle I don't anything wrong with her response, but I think she took it a bit too far.
___I looked at a bunch of her other posts, and she sounds first and foremost honest, and fed up with the word-mincing crap that passes as commentary. She seems to want to put her dark side out for all to see, without fetishizing it as "alternative" or politicizing it as "militant". She's just fed up, and seems happy to be a bit offensive to hypersensitive readers.
___For more on relational abuse Google "girls' bulllying". Notice that the literature doesn't address its effects on males. For that, see:
http://www.geocities.com/zenpriest/mensissues/pizzey-violentwomen.html

Answer 2

Personally that Wendy girl had it coming to her. Sometimes there is a case where the straw actually breaks the camel's back. Anyways; I have no business analyzing that girl who wrote the blog because I beat the crap out of people myself and I righteously belived they had it coming to them. I mean this lady told me once (I was 18) I needed help when I was done with her she was wearing a brace on her neck, her arm was in a sling, she walked with a can (for a while only) and had her head wrapped up in bandages. So who am I to go around preaching about what she did or didn't do wrong?

Answer 3

All I can say is, I was never bullied in school. I've had friends that were bullied and they were timid girls. I've always stood up for the timid ones, the shy ones and the ones that always got picked on. The geeks, the "ugly betty's" and the "not so good in sports" kind of kids. I could never understand WHY some kids were bully's. Funny thing is, the bullies were my friend as well. But, as I have always been taught by my Family, "right is right and wrong is wrong." So, whenever I told my bully friends to lay off, so and so, they usually did. They weren't too happy...oh well.

Most People become bullies due to peer acceptance. It's easier to bully someone into liking you, than it is to just being their friend without all that armor. It's sad and pathetic.

Answer 4

Totally warranted. Stopped the bully dead in her tracks, and it is doubtful she would repeat that behavior after the attack. I was the victim all through school and into high school of both girls and boys. So today I detest bullies of both genders and bullies in the workplace...of course, at my age I would use alternative methods to defang the bully, but the spirit is still there and the desire not only to get even, as it were, but to ensure the bully never repeats the behavior again on anyone else. And it isn't that girls/women and more complicated, they are just far worse bitches and nastier than men could ever be.

Answer 5

The Zionists won't reply to some thing however brute drive. It is all they comprehend. As to treaties they're not anything to them however such a lot of scraps of paper. Yes,a violent rebel is known as for even though it does transform an extended-time period warfare of attrition like Vietnam.

Answer 6

The girl bullies were physically violent to her at times, so she could claim self-defense. But a random beatdown in phys ed is reprehensible.

Answer 7

Did anyone just 'happen' to turn the page and read some of the other 'stories' that appear in this enlightening blog?

Answer 8

I could understand knocking the crap out of her like that. But believe it or not, there are catty arsed boys too.

Answer 9

Good going. Very good point.

Answer 10

This isn't any type of reliable source. For all we know this is one of your sexist blogs. You seem to have a knack for advertising credentials you don't actually have.