Ok I have a question, I am confused on whether or not I am a lesbian or not.
I have this crush on my friend who happens to be a guy, I cry over him, I miss him, i need him. But then I have this girl who is also my friend and when she hugs me or when she rests her head on my shoulders its like.. i really enjoy it! So I don't know anymore. I don't know if its because I've never been with a guy or a girl before, so I don't know why I am feeling this way. Shouldn't I just be attracted to guys? When I check guys out at school I feel like I don't like girls, but then I see a hot girl walk in and I start to get confused. What is going on? is this normal?
2007-09-28 17:52:23 · 15 answers · asked by Kaine 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
your Bi
2007-09-28 17:55:30 · answer #1 · answered by High.Blue 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Same here. I love my guy friends their awesome! And I can tell them anything. And sometimes I get a little too attached with them, and start crushing on them becuase my guy friends are all hott! And then a hott girl walks down the hall way and I get jelouse and I start to feel weird like I like her. And I always find myself judjing on how "hot" the girl is. (in my mind) I think im just confused since im a teenager. So. I think we should just let ourselfs grow up, and when we get to the point were it is too much to handle. Choose. But I think your starting to sound a little Bio girl! Your a bio girl!
2007-09-28 18:06:31 · answer #2 · answered by Sidney 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
That's a sticky situation.. I wouldn't get so caught up emotionally with her because you stand the chance of losing out in the end. She's probably scared of what she might start to feel.. I have str8 friends that are really curious but are afraid to act on it because they don't know how their family and others would react.. But hell your both consenting adults I say have fun be tread very carefully. Hope that kinda helped.
2016-05-21 02:45:41 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright, first off: EVERYONE likes feeling affection. Doesn't matter a damn if it comes from your dog, or a branch. Humans are naturally attracted to affection. You have not described any sexual curiosities, so I assume you have none. And do not think that you're "supposed" to like those creatures with penis'. They're there to give you babies, doesn't mean anything else. If you are brave enough to let yourself be open-minded to such a thing such as liking a girl, do it. And if you're not, then good luck.
2007-09-28 19:09:01 · answer #4 · answered by Dinah 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you're bisexual, meaning you like both men and women. If you're a teenager then you may just be confused, it tends to happen when you're growing, i'm sure as you grow up you'll have a better idea. Either way there's nothing wrong with being bisexual so don't feel ashamed. Good luck!
2007-09-28 17:57:18 · answer #5 · answered by Pat's Angel 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
babe it sounds like you might me "bi" to me. I'm "bi" too and it is great. You get to enjoy the best of both worlds. By the way how old are you. If you are looking to "explore" and "experiment" with a woman then me and my GF are always looking for willing females to "teach". The three of us could do all kinds of fun stuff together. send me a email if you are interested. Jenny_Campbell69@yahoo.com
2007-10-01 00:14:49 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
It's completely up to you. If you want to be a lesbian you have the potential to become a lesbian. Believe it or not, everyone at birth is a potential homosexual/lesbian. If you read the Bible, your confusion will be wiped away.
Click on Bookshelf.
http://fascinatingwomanhood.net/
2007-09-28 18:01:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you've never been sexually active with anyone, you don't know. You might be a switch-hitter - one of the few who is able to enjoy the best of both worlds.
2007-09-28 18:06:15 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Relax, enjoy your friends and grow up when you are ready to. You don't need to figure this out right now.
2007-09-28 17:55:46 · answer #9 · answered by treebird 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
women are better to be with emotionally, spiritually and physically
2007-09-28 17:55:43 · answer #10 · answered by Miranda Mysterious 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
your bi sexual but now your turning more to lesbianism.
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2007-09-29 02:47:06 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋