i seen to found myself attached to her but she is starting to use me like when we are together she is nice but when we are with others she pushes me aside and talk to them instead of me!!
2007-09-28 17:24:23 · 5 answers · asked by angelpup 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
No, I don't think that is a friend. Keep her at a respectable distance and don't confide anything with her. She is a user.
Listen... you need to get a little something down. There are FRIENDS and there are ACQUAINTANCES... even within family groups.
Acquaintances only call you when they want something... bring a present to a birthday party, or come when they call. These people are "users" at best. They typically don't care about you or anything going on in your life. You always wonder where you stand with these people until you put 2 + 2 together.
Friends are different. They are there for you, usually share common interests, offer a shoulder to cry on, cheer you on, and want the best for you.
At some point, you need to evaluate each relationship and ask, "What does this person bring to the table?" Is this person a mooch? A user? A manipulator? A drama-queen? A time-waster? Or is this person your cheering section? Provide insight? Make you laugh?
As you go down the list of traits and how each thing makes you feel, you will know who you should be spending more time with. That alone will make your life better.
2007-09-28 17:32:21 · answer #1 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not! She is just using you. Find some real friends.
2007-09-29 00:31:07 · answer #2 · answered by Matt D 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not,
"With friends like this, who needs enemies?"
2007-09-29 00:44:13 · answer #3 · answered by gulfbreeze8 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that si not a friend thats what happened to me
good luck
2007-09-29 00:30:32 · answer #4 · answered by booboobrat 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid of her. she is disrespectful
2007-09-29 00:27:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋