Im,29, married, still unstable.. I always hunt for a job but when im into it, i dont have a chance to attend my final interview because of some reasons,,, I wanna have a baby but im very worried because he/she might be "kawawa"...Help!!!!
2007-09-28 17:17:03 · 11 answers · asked by flongee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Ask a male friend, preferably an intelligent one, to ejaculate into a cup and use a squeeze bulb-type turkey baster to, um, transfer the contents to where it'll do the most good IYKWIM. May have to do this every month at ovulation time and sign something relieving your friend of paternal responsibility.
A stable person wouldn't even consider this a rational idea. Don't do it especially if it seems feasable.
2007-09-28 17:40:55 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
NOBODY needs to bring an innocent baby into an unstable relationship. Of course you don't attend your final interview; you just might get hired and then you'd have to work. You're the one that's kawawa and you're the only one that can help you. Get off your lazy butt; get a job; grow up; and then (if you're still married) perhaps you can discuss having a family.
2007-09-28 17:34:56 · answer #2 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to work on whatever your "unstable" is and get you on an even keel before you take on one of the most demanding and responsible jobs in life. A mother. A baby will not be a baby for very long. They grow up into adults and need a good mom and dad to help raise them and guide them to adulthood. I have 2 who are now both married and successfull, thank God.. But it is a 24/7 job and you need to be able to handle all facets of raising a child.. Do not take having a baby lightly.. You need to think over things carefully before making this decision.. It's a lifetime commitment. Choose wisely for your sake and the future child's..
2007-09-28 17:30:51 · answer #3 · answered by Joanie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you're currently unstable, then it's not the right time to have a baby. A baby needs emotionally healthy parents and a safe, loving enviornment. Having to take care of an infant, will add pressure to your life and if you're not emotionally health yet, your welfare will detriment. This makes things worst both for you and the infant. Please wait a while, seek help and get better; then you can in good conscience bring a new life to this world.
2007-09-28 17:37:49 · answer #4 · answered by Waterish 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey bunny, you know that you aren't in a situation to have a baby. If you can't even make it to a final interview, how are you going to get up in the middle of the night to calm a screaming child? Sure, babies are cute...but they are always cuter when they are someone elses. Why not try doing daycare in your home? That way you get to enjoy the babies, get paid and send them home so you can have some "me" time. Because when you are a mother, there is no "me" time in your days.
2007-09-28 17:44:18 · answer #5 · answered by Hollynfaith 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kawawa?
Anyway back to the subject in hand. If you are "unstable" now is not the right time to be wanting a baby, a baby does not make you feel anymore "stable" and will not make you feel complete or whole.
Wait until you are ready financially, mentally and emotionally before having a baby.
2007-09-28 17:22:17 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Fix your instability.
Do NOT have a baby yet. Your body is designed to want this, but your brain clearly knows better. The biological clock is hard to overcome, but you need to.
If you really want this, you will focus on taking the steps to prepare yourself for having a baby. Otherwise you are doing yourself and your future child a huge disservice.
You need to become stable, marry a good man, and then choose a baby.
2007-09-28 17:46:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anita 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't hold a job or even have time for the interview.....will you have time for a baby. That's a 24 hour job.
2007-09-28 17:21:04 · answer #8 · answered by Je Adore 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
what?! if you're unstable why in the world you want to have a baby? get a job, settle your butt down and plan to have a baby later.
2007-09-28 17:22:27 · answer #9 · answered by Thomas 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ready to have a baby yet...your priorities are not yet in order...you need a job so you can support a baby.....What in the world is a "kawawa"?
2007-09-28 17:26:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋