ok, wel i dont knwo where to start, ok..well iv noticed that i get very sad at times, then i feel ok, i lost friends that i trust to talk to. because i had my best friend but she has changed too much. to the point that i dont think shes mature enough to give me adivice, and my as for my other friends i dont know them well enought that i will talk to them about my problems. and i have many problem (as we all do) but i find myself getting soooo mad to the point that i want to hurt someone. and i tend to take it out on my family and friends. i feel like crying. i have no one to talk to. anything to make me feel better will be great thank you.
2007-09-28 17:14:11 · 6 answers · asked by *just_a_girl* 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Honey, if you're depressed and need to talk to someone, talk to a counselor or psychologist. They will be able to help you. If all you're doing with your friends is pouring your problems out on them, they really aren't equipped to help. Also, they don't want to be around someone who is down all the time. We've all been through those times when we feel depressed and need to talk, but it sounds like you would do better talking to a professional. It isn't hard, I've done it myself and it has helped me a lot. Good luck and hang in there.
2007-09-28 17:25:29 · answer #1 · answered by Beckers 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Please reference the website below for a little useful knowledge.
People mature at different rates and plateau at different levels for different lengths of time. I know a 27 year old rage-a-holic that is still functioning on a 12 year old emotional level.
Your old friends may take some time to catch up to you, and you really need to wait and get to know the new friends before opening up to them... after all, you don't want to arm an unknown enemy with sensitive information.
It is very tough being a young person. You need to find some constructive outlets... a craft or some kind of art activity, extracurricular activities, sports, or even just going walking whenever you feel blue... a little physical activity will help you relax and ramp up the happy endorphin hormones.
See if your mom can get you on a vitamin supplement or two. If the sensitivity is around "that time of month" see about getting something called Evening Primrose Oil in gelcaps. If you are having trouble concentrating and perhaps feel a little too burdened, see if a supplement called "Holy Basil" will help. You take these with meals. They are completely safe.
2007-09-28 17:30:30 · answer #2 · answered by revsuzanne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once I felt like that under the same circumstances.
My Godfather told me to sit somewhere alone and talk about all my feelings and difficulties into a recorder. Just talk it all out to yourself.
Three days later - play back your recordings - listen carefully - and your own brain will decipher your problems, perhaps even to realise that they are minor and simply not worth your frustration.
Only once - I have never had to record my feelings again.
Remember - absolute privacy when you record this and when you play it back. good luck
2007-09-28 17:35:32 · answer #3 · answered by Jonathan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
lady i know how you feel.i have lost all my friends to god knows what reason.my best friend of 10 years just stopped taking my call and just doesnt want anything to do with me.i have no one to talk to most of all my family,cause they wont understand me.if you want you can talk to me,im willing to listen cause thats what i like to do.and if could help you in any way feel free to email me or put me on you im list if you'd likebut know this your not alone in this world cause friends come and go and theres always room for new ones.
2007-09-28 17:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by the wolverine 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find friends on here and get to know them via email or im that might help you
2007-09-28 17:39:21 · answer #5 · answered by juan b 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get to a church
or at least read what Jesus said
he talks about exactly what your feeling'
2007-09-28 17:23:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋