2007-09-28 16:53:10 · 12 answers · asked by help 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Maybe it's time to put the beer down or go to bed.I didn't understand this at all.Re phrase please.
2007-09-28 17:02:26 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm guessing he made a bet with his friends that he could get you? Am i right ow wrong? If i'm right then maybe you should confront him and get his side of the story. Depending on who told you that, it may possibly be a lie but it's better to know the thruth. I mean if it were a lie and you were to leave him it would break his heart. On the other hand, he may have made a bet with his friends that he could get you but who is the fool in the end? He ended up falling in love with you and married you so that should not be a reason to leave him, that is if you feel the same way.
I mean in the beginning my husband made a bet with his friend that he could get me in to bed. I didn't give him the satisfaction but we did become pretty good friends and he ended up falling in love with me, i fell for him as well but neither of us knew. About a year later we did end up sleeping together and that is when we discussed the way we felt about eachother and about a month after that we were married and the news about the bet came up in conversation. I was a little upset because all he wanted in the beginning was sex but i ended up getting him in the end.
I can't really blame him, that's all a man wants befor he really gets to know the girl. I mean, at first he was kinda seeing a girl that was married that hung out in our group of friends and i sort of made a bet with myself that i could get him and i did:)
Now, if i'm wrong about what your meaning then your going to have to be a bit more specific!
2007-09-28 17:13:13 · answer #2 · answered by Kasja 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you're trying to say he is abusive, you need to leave him before it gets worse (which it will.) He has to leave the house sometime. Be prepared with enough packed to get by on for a while. When he leaves, GET OUT while you have a chance. Go somewhere safe. You may have family where you can stay for awhile. You may need to go to a women's shelter. You may need to go to the police and ask for help. You should file a police report too while you're there. But GO!! and don't look back! Your life depends on it.
2007-09-28 17:46:16 · answer #3 · answered by missingora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Odds are he knows...going on the bet angle.
Truly, if you want to leave - you just leave. I've never understood why some women ask HOW, WHY, or WHEN to leave - pull up your boot straps and get to scootin'.
2007-09-28 17:05:52 · answer #4 · answered by Cathy C 3 · 1⤊ 1⤋
If he made a bet with you, how can he not know about it?
2007-09-29 00:48:49 · answer #5 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
when you say he "bet you" are you saying that he is BEATING YOU? is so, you do need to leave ASAP. wait until he's at work and pack everything up and leave then BEFOUR HE GETS BACK HOME. good luck to you and i hope you get out SOON.
2007-09-28 17:01:48 · answer #6 · answered by Fox29 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wtf?
he bet you in a game of poker?
what?
what you are trying to say?
2007-09-28 17:00:53 · answer #7 · answered by Truth Hurts Get Over It 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well, to leave your husband you walk out the door, take the kids if you have any ........ and if he bet you without your knowledge......... what the heck kind of marriage do you have..... sounds kind of sick...........
2007-09-28 17:03:42 · answer #8 · answered by bizzymom38 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
He Beat you?
Call lifeline or a community organisation for help.
2007-09-28 16:59:36 · answer #9 · answered by Karyn M 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Huh?
Say what?
Come again?
2007-09-28 16:57:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋