I know and have been great friends with this girl for 5 years (im 19). She has always had a dramatic life and I have been through it with her. Every single up and dramatic down.
Well, I've never really gone to her like that, my problems are just the typical family problems. Nothing serious. But this past year Ive been feeling very bad because of some home problems. A few months ago I went to her house, expecting to have my bestfriend comfort me and give me herself like Ive done for her countless times before. But I get a "Oh I cant talk to you now I have company" and get pushed back to my car. Since then Ive had an inner grudge that just wont go away.
I feel like thats not a friend. Also before she use to call me non stop everyday for nothing. Again these past few months she only calls me when she needs something, and when I used to call her to say "lets go out" she would always blow me off.
I just feel this anger towards her, what do you think.
Hopefully you read all this
2007-09-28 16:33:05 · 11 answers · asked by LADIDAH 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
geez! she sure knows how to be cold. but, realistically, it sounds like you've outgrown each other, it happens. you're frustrated and hurt, but i don't think you hate her. but, you do need to move on. it's just a relationship that's cooled. you'll survive.
2007-09-28 16:38:56 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I am 64 but when I was reading your letter I was reading my own story with one of my friend For the past 10- years I gave her my shoulder to cry But in dec 2006 I went in a terrible and pain because of one of my children Sorry I forgot the word shock after terrible ... Ok so I confide in her Right away she became cold with me and she was not calling anymore So both of us have the same kind of friend ..,heartless selfish and selfcentered We are better off alone than having those cruel people around us You and me we will find a new friend who will there for us in time we need support For those who think I should things out with Well I did and it did not work You are in my prayers
2007-09-29 00:08:25 · answer #2 · answered by lala 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I had this problem in 5th grade and i still remember it! Just maybe she has a new best friend and was using you until she find someone.My used to be friend and i never talked now cause we are far apart from each other but talk to her and maybe tell her how you feel but first right it down on a journal that helps A LOT!!!!!!!
2007-09-29 00:20:07 · answer #3 · answered by angelpup 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
trust me, this girl is definately NOT bff worthy.
A best friend is someone who will comfort you when you are down, someome you feel comfortable around and Trustworthy.
If your friend isn't all 3 of these things then find a new bf.
goodluck!!
2007-09-28 23:44:11 · answer #4 · answered by x3 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it takes a lot of love to hate someone.
not sure who said it, but I agree.
Take her to lunch and talk to her about it. I find in these situations the person just plain doesn't realize what's giong on, and by telling them flat out you get it into the open!
2007-09-28 23:49:42 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
she either might be really busy, or she might think that there are better things to do than just hang out with you. (not supposed to be taken offensively!!) but it's ok to dislike her, though, because that's normal. i really hope that you two can work things out & sorry if i wasn't that great of a help! good luck!
2007-09-28 23:37:18 · answer #6 · answered by Megan 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
having sammmmee issue...your not alone. All I can say is, if your sure there is something between you 2, c her in person and then say, semi=casually,
"Hey, you know, is there something wrong? I feel like your sort of ignoring me." or "Did I do something? I feel like there's something between us" or "Hey, I don't want to be weird or anything, but...are you made at me or something cause things have been sort of strange between us"
i know it takes courage and its super hard, but its a question she can't aviod. if she says something like "um no" just be like "c'mon y'know there is. don't lie to me" or something of that sort.
good luck.
2007-09-28 23:45:44 · answer #7 · answered by Sparky 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
it depends to your friend but don't let your friend go away because life without a friend is a death without a witness
2007-09-28 23:45:07 · answer #8 · answered by charm!!!!erika!!!@ 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like you shouldn't call her your best friend anymore.
2007-09-28 23:41:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if that's how she's really treating you then she's not best friends with you at all....friends don't do that to each other....so no, i wouldn't say that you can hate your best friend since you two aren't best friends....hope that this helped!
2007-09-28 23:50:07 · answer #10 · answered by amyhwoods 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋