this is more aimed toward asian lesbians...how hard was it to accept that you were gay/lesbian? if you've come out to your parents, how hard was it? did your parents accept it/you?
if you're like me, my parents are extremely homophobic. i think it's due to the fact that they are ignorant and haven't really been exposed enough. but i'm worried about coming out and how they'll react and treat me.
2007-09-28 16:23:11 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
For me to accept that I was/am a lesbian wasn't a quick process, nor an easy one. But the exception was there even when I was doubtful. My parents did/do accept me, but I can't give much credit to myself as far as telling them, because it was one of those "slipping out" sort of things. You know, if you accept yourself, you're almost invincible. Just as long as you are secure with who you are, it doesn't matter what your parents say, because there's nothing they can do about it but b*tch and possibly want to murder you in your sleep. If they can't accept you, then maybe that should be an indicator of just how much they sincerely support you. Or lack thereof.
2007-09-28 19:17:37 · answer #1 · answered by Dinah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that actual sounds alluring. So what? White ladies have pink/pink/mild brownish despite colours there are interior the international. Is that rather diverse from pink? And as properly, does it rather count quantity what colour their genitals are? i assume that would desire to malicious program some human beings immensely, even nevertheless it rather would not malicious program me. Does it malicious program you? you are the sole one that has an opinion in this--despite your associates think of is actual inconsequential. i've got actual in no way heard this approximately black ladies, and in no way considered one myself. i does no longer say it rather is racist... per danger for the individuals. the actuality your nevertheless decide to bypass out with ladies in spite of that's actual speaking lots on your character. even in the experience that your associates do no longer approve, it rather is rather no longer their company. And in basic terms asserting, even nevertheless i've got in no way considered 'down there', black ladies ARE alluring. rather alluring. no longer something might supply up me from going out with a black woman if I enjoyed her character. *shrug* as properly, everybody's alluring.
2016-12-28 06:48:33 · answer #2 · answered by sallas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your parents are "extremely homophobic"? Really? They're afraid of homosexuality?
Or are you just abusing that word to publicly diss your parents in this forum? Abusing that word like so many hetero-haters do?
Dissing your parents, maybe, because they reject bad choices, or maybe reject an aberrated lifestyle, and are intensely concerned with your well-being, now and in the future?
We endanger our souls by adding sin onto sin--breaking yet another commandment "honor your father and mother." See how sin begets sin? And down the soul goes...
Maybe time to give Jesus a try. Haven't we tried everything else?
2007-09-30 01:42:43 · answer #3 · answered by gene_frequency 7 · 0⤊ 5⤋
I haven't yet and am also afraid of their reaction. Say a prayer for me when I do.
2007-09-28 16:27:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I told my parents about my sexuality*lesbian* they are tolerant about it, but don't encourage it..
2007-09-28 16:29:14 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
im not out yet
2007-09-28 18:34:53 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i am nto telling them
2007-09-29 01:43:31 · answer #7 · answered by Old Witch 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is an abomination
2007-09-28 16:46:04 · answer #8 · answered by jasminebudd 4 · 0⤊ 8⤋