Is spying on loved ones acceptable?

Question

With the exception of adequate parental supervision what is an excuse to spy on loved ones? Is it even mildly acceptable under any circumstance? Is there a possible and practical moral standing? _please_absolutely no religious answers. I'm looking for reason/logic only!!!

Answer 1

I think that the words 'spying' and 'loved' ones just don't match together.
It is unacceptable under any circumstance and nothing jusfy it other than mistrust, possessivity, blind jealousy, sick and paranoid behaviour.
And i believe these words have nothing to do with love.

Answer 2

I usually say that "I'm suspicious by nature and paranoid by experience." If you are not trusting someone, there is usually good reason for that act of spying. There is no excuse for the action. If I get to the point of not trusting someone, they are history.

And if you are spying on me, you might ask yourself why would continue a friendship or relationship with someone whom you don't trust.

Answer 3

Nope, you should be able to trust that person enough to talk to them, confide in them and expext the same in return. Spying is a road to destroying that trust, whether you have good reason to or not. A loved one is not a posession to be guarded but a special friend to be respected.

Answer 4

I think if the loved one begins to act as though they are doing something wrong, then yes--limited snooping is ok.

But if this is someone you have a lot of trust in, you should go to them FIRST with your suspicions, and give them a chance to explain.

Sometimes even very suspicious behavior turns out to be nothing.

Answer 5

A loaded question... I think probably not, but if you can do it and get away with it, just remember that you have to live with what you find out in silence, or look like a paranoid cretin who will be deemed forever more untrustworthy.

Answer 6

whats up, too long yet solid. One short comic tale for you: a girl receives on a bus along with her toddler. The bus driving force says: “it incredibly is the ugliest toddler that i've got ever considered. Ugh!” the female is going to the rear of the bus and sits down, fuming. She says to a guy next to her: “the driving force basically insulted me!” the guy says: “You pass precise up there and tell him off – pass forward, i'm going to hold your monkey for you.”