Ok, last friday I knew this espectacular blonde taller than me, from my age who com as an exchange student (I work at a university in my country) that day we go out at night and we was dancing salsa. Finally we was talking a lot and kissing passionately, and then dancing romantically until the end of the night. I invite her to my flat but she said no. Well, I didn´t care, it was a wonderful night for us anyway and I was just thinking on her. All of this was very beautiful and very surprising for a day. But some days later she said me that she repents of what happened and that she kissed me cause the drinks. She broke my heart with that. I don´t know what happened to her and I don´t know what to do. We talk politely but she don´t call me and she just end the call phone very quikly when I call her.
2007-09-28 15:53:14 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
It´s not the first time I have an experience with an european woman. Actually I was married with one, but I never have wanted relocated there. I have had snother girfriends from ther too. The point is that always they have wondered me with that kind of cold reactions.
2007-09-28 16:08:21 · update #1
****, we are cold unfeeling witches. We have devolped this skill after centuries of men wiping their feet on us.
2007-09-29 10:55:31 · answer #1 · answered by wee.rossco 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Dude you have to accept that sometimes other people dont get the same vibe about a relationship or its potential as you do.
Most people are not honest enough to be brutally straight and say "look sorry this just isnt it" although in her own way this lady has done just that.
Stop throwing your toys out of the cot - there are plenty more where she came from.
Sounds to me like she had a nice evening, got a bit swept away in the mood of the moment with a bit of alcohol under her belt, then realised the next mornign that it likely shouldnt have happened.
Calm down - she did you a FAVOUR. She could have taken you home, shagged you, made you spend a shitload of time and money on her, THEN said OH ITS ALL BEEN A BIG MISTAKE ON MY PART.
Be happy that she said it before you even went there!
Ferret - I am NOT a cold emotionless Robot, Im just cold and emotionless thanks!! :)
2007-09-28 23:28:26 · answer #2 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps she just wanted some fun and flirtation. It sounds like your looking for a relationship, which you're unlikely to find in one night.....this must be built up through getting to know someone who's looking for the same thing as you. It's a rediculous notion to have a prejudice against women in europe who are free too choose what they want....makes me wonder whether you're from a female-repressed nation? remember we can all be prejudiced!
2007-09-29 04:16:30 · answer #3 · answered by Pez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, when people drink, their whole concept of what is real, is not real. Then they sober up, and go back to getting on with real life. You had a good time, take it for what it's worth and stop being so mushy.
Next time, try doing something substantial with a "European woman... you may get further, but sadly, somehow I doubt it.
Yours truly,
A European Woman. xxx
2007-09-29 00:34:32 · answer #4 · answered by talloolah 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least she's being honest. A Brit or American girl would probably go along with it out of "not wanting to hurt your feelings" while slagging you off behind your back to her mates.
2007-09-28 23:12:42 · answer #5 · answered by Mojo Risin 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
No. European women died out in the 70's drug craze and were replaced by emotionless robots.
Or maybe she had second thoughts when she saw the kind of stuff you post on Y!A.
2007-09-28 23:12:23 · answer #6 · answered by slytherinferret 2 · 6⤊ 0⤋
......and the point that You are trying to make by telling Us about how Your date went, is? Isn't it Your life? and are You, or are You not the one responsible for Your own actions, feelings and the direction that Your life follows after each event?
2007-09-29 02:12:29 · answer #7 · answered by Ashleigh 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm maybe she just wanted some fun without any intimate reaction from you.
2007-09-28 23:15:34 · answer #8 · answered by LADIDAH 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Yes, they do. You just met the one who did not.
2007-09-29 02:35:08 · answer #9 · answered by Fex 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They do have feelings but they don't wanna show their feelings all the time.
2007-09-29 00:23:48 · answer #10 · answered by discoveryman 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋