Why do ugly fat men think they have any woman they want?

Question

They can be old, bald, fat, unhygienic, but they will still think they can end up with a young, blond attractive girl.

I remember when I was at my heavyist how unkind even AVERAGE guys were to me.

In shows on tv there is always unattractive men with better looking women but never the other way around.

What is up with all that?

Answer 1

i have noticed this myself and frankly sometimes i feel offended by it, it's like a homeless person hitting on a lawyer or something. You have to hold yourself to the standard you expect your partner or date to be at. So if you want a lean person, then you have to be working out yourself. and if you want a clean person, you have to do your own share of showering

of course i don't think it's nice that ANYONE is unkind to anyone else but i think that you should have what you are looking for in someone else

Answer 2

On TV, It is common for an overweight guy to have a very attractive (slim) wife - According to Jim, King of Queens.....

In movies, 40 year old men seldom have girlfriends or wives that are the near their age. The man is 40+ and the woman is in her 20s.

Once in a while you see an "older" woman with a younger guy - Samantha and Jared on Sex and the City.

I guess this makes the average overweight guy think he can attract a young, attractive girl. Unfortunately, I think when they try reality sets in.

Society as a whole does seem to be hardest on woman and not just regarding their weight. Woman need to be thin, have no gray hair and smooth skin. Men with gray hair and wrinkles are "distinguished".

Now, a man that is bald can still be attractive as long as he doesn't have a comb over or is bald on top and wears the sides too long. A man of any age can be attractive.

But, you know, it is what it is and being happy with yourself is what is most important.

Answer 3

I have seen my share of mismatched couples. The very handsome man with the homeliest woman ever as well as the fat/ugly/smelly guy with a beauty. My mother explained it like this. The better looking person of the couple (the one that takes care of them self) is with the other because that gives them the upper hand in a relationship. They assume because they went far below themselves that their partner would never stray and always appreciate them. In the couples like this that I have known, my Mom is usually right.

Men (and some women) have such egos that they think they can get anyone and have no idea that others view them as creepy.

Answer 4

Some men have egos that know no bounds. I think most women are more interested in personality and character and some men are just interested in looks.

Answer 5

Those smelly fat, old and bald boys are living in a world of delusions. A world they made up themselves. Most people call them losers, I call them poor.