I have an abusive bf ( I am seeing a dv advocate)and he got mad at me at like three in the morning a few days ago. He turned off the light so it was dark and bum rushed me to the ground and choked me. I couldn't breath and i blanked out for a sec. He then let go and for a couple hours he slapped me around and pulled my hair.
My problem is that my neck hurts really really bad and I have a sore throat. And when I eat or open my mouth my jaw line hurts and my ear hurts horribly. I do not see any brusies. Do you think he did any major damage to me? He has hit and choked me before but I usually recover after a day without any pain. I'ma little worried.
2007-09-28 12:47:48 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ General Health Care ➔ Injuries
You should defiantly see a Doctor your best bet is to go to the Emergency Room , as they may have to do a Ct scan you could have some serious injury's. And for the sake of you life you should get away form him before you end up dead. He has already proven he can kill you go to the. The advocate should be able to help you with this. Nobody is worth dying for. The man belongs in jail. Love yourself enough to get away...
2007-09-28 12:55:07 · answer #1 · answered by sharon p 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
The first time a woman tells me that she was abused I want to kick the guys a** the second time I blame her. If you aren't smart enough to see that this is escalating let me tell you it is. If he chocked you out and you went unconscious you were not but a hair away from this bastard killing you. He may of hurt you and did some damage. you need to see a doctor and you need to leave his sorry a** Why didn't you call the police?Listen to me its NOT going to get better. its NOT going to stop. He is going to wind up killing YOU, GET AWAY FROM HIM NOWWWWWWW why do you put up with that? I DONT WANNA HEAR "because I loveeee him"
2007-09-28 20:03:40 · answer #2 · answered by chuck t 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You could have a damaged windpipe or a dislocated or broken jaw. First get to a doctor. Then call the cops and have his @ss arrested.
2007-09-28 20:53:58 · answer #3 · answered by Ms. GTO 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes he could have done a lot of damage. You really need to go to the ER and get checked out. Please do that...there are many things that can happen from an injury to your neck like that.
2007-09-28 19:52:36 · answer #4 · answered by Eraserhead 6 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Why are you still with a man that abuses you like that? You need to report him for what he has done to you and you need to get away from him before he kills you. I know it is not easy, I was abused also. but you need to do this for you. You do not deserve to be abused.. You are a good person, and I quarantee despite what he has said.. You are worth something. Please seek help and counseling.
2007-09-28 19:55:24 · answer #5 · answered by lynda 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
See a doctor and then file a police report. Get a new boyfriend!
2007-09-28 19:51:35 · answer #6 · answered by marchhare57 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Stop worrying about him, worry about yourself. Why stay with him if he abuse u? Get a police involved
2007-09-28 19:56:56 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sounds like he crushed your windpipe...go to the er,tell em what happened and put the dirtbag away,get an order of protection
2007-09-28 19:56:29 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
Time to find a new bf--self respect
2007-09-28 19:52:23 · answer #9 · answered by Kristi 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Please get yourself to a doctor, then get yourself out of the relationship and never look back. He will not stop doing this to you. It will only get worse. You deserve better than this. Please get help and get away from him!
2007-09-28 19:57:09 · answer #10 · answered by prncesbuttrkup 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋