2007-09-28 12:41:33 · 19 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
BTW: My birthday is in DEC.
2007-09-28 12:44:54 · update #1
NO!
It's already been said, but I'll say it again. You can get the bar owner in serious trouble. You can get YOU in trouble, and you don't want to mess up that Oxford scholarship now, do ya?
Wait till you're legal. Don't mess up your life for a cheap, stupid thrill.
Please.
2007-09-28 13:14:58 · answer #1 · answered by FTW 7 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Honey - I know this sounds like I'm hundreds of years old, but I really mean this from the bottom of my heart:
At fifteen, you should be hanging around with people your age. When you're old enough, go to all the gay bars you want.
It's not just about the law, the dangers (a young girl always looks like an easy prey - you simply do not want to put yourself in that position without need) and the morality of it.
- Do all the crazy things you want when you're young! Just be sure it's nothing that will harm you and that your in the right environment and around the right people.
So, enjoy these years with your friends. I can't tell you how often I think about my teen years and all the crazy stuff we used to do then - and I'm only 31!
My younger sister went the other way, started hanging with older people when she was only 14, going to bars, parties etc.
Today, she's been in rehab twice, has a kid with a man she doesn't know and doesn't really have any memories of herself as a teenager because she went straight from a kid to a grownup... in a way.
My best advice for someone who's in such an exciting age (honestly, you're about to enter the best part of life) is to love yourself and take care of yourself. I know (and hope!) you'll do some crazy things - and that's ok. Just make sure you think about them in advance, and make sure you'll come out of them standing on your feet. Don't do something because other people want you to - that is not way for an independent person with any sence of selfworth to live her life.
2007-09-28 21:17:41 · answer #2 · answered by Georgina Elin 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
whoa whoa whoa. ok. think about. now i'm 16 and i'm planning on doing the same thing in about a months time (i will have fake ID though, which is SLIGHTLY better
i will share with you some of the things ive had to consider.
i don't know about where u live, but in australia, sneaking in SERIOUS. the fine for having a minor the premises can exceed $25 000 and the bar WILL SUE YOU and your parents to pay for it.
so think about. waiting to pay $15 to get in when ur 18, or $25 000 now, is a big call.
2007-09-28 19:56:36 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 5⤊ 0⤋
Even if you do not drink anything, by entering a bar the law views that as an intent to drink. If you actually get in and are caught, you risk being taken from your home and placed in a juvenile delinquency facility as well as costing the gay bar owner his liquor license.
In other words; No, you should not.
2007-09-28 20:26:28 · answer #4 · answered by χριστοφορος ▽ 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
DO IT!
I don't have to sneak in to bars because my cousin is 23 and is good at lying.
2007-09-28 20:05:25 · answer #5 · answered by tt --AM-- 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I did that when I was 16. In retrospect, I don't know how good of an idea it was. I could have gotten in trouble, I could have gotten the bar in trouble... There are lots of fun things you could do besides go to a bar. Is there a glbtq center in your area? Maybe you could go there instead?
2007-09-28 19:48:15 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 8⤊ 0⤋
If you are 15 you have no busines sneaking into a ar regardless of your sexual orientation.
2007-09-28 20:43:10 · answer #7 · answered by westfield47130 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Only if you want to get you and the bar owner in trouble.
2007-09-28 19:45:43 · answer #8 · answered by Louie 5 · 7⤊ 0⤋
YOU WON"T MISS MUCH. Just guys playing pool and ocasional french kiss or two.
2007-09-28 20:16:18 · answer #9 · answered by sparkles 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Madeline, you're getting the Mom-Look.
I love you a lot but please don't sneak into a bar, gay or not. You and the bar can get into a LOT of trouble. Please don't.
2007-09-28 19:51:52 · answer #10 · answered by Mama Otter 7 · 6⤊ 0⤋