we recently had a a friend coming and stayingg with us home and he is 78 years old (a widower staying alone). during his stay he always preferred chatting with my wife but one day when i came home i found the old man hugging and carressing my wife on bed. i asked my wife about this and she told me that one day when she came from bath with a only towel around her, he just pulled it off and started hugging her. begging her he pushed her to the bed and started fondling her but couldnt perform as he was not able to. my wife felt pitty for him and allowed him whenever he felt so (he only fondled and not perform).ihe too confessed to me that he was feeling comfort staying with us and begged me not to send away. too felt sad for the poor man as he had no other way at this age. is it wrong to provide a comfort to an old man about to die?
2007-09-28 09:29:33 · 13 answers · asked by orangeman 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
And this is related to LGBT HOW?!?!?!?!?
2007-09-28 10:25:21 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont see how letting an old man molest your wife provides comfort but at the same time if you and your wife don't mind than that is clearly your business.
and I don't see why in the world you would post this here. its the kind of thing you should not talk about both for your own dignity, your wives dignity and that poor old man..
also, if your wife suggests getting a job at an old age home I would get suspicious...
2007-09-28 16:44:06 · answer #2 · answered by howie r 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry but not with my wife !
He is about to die? How do you know that? Have you been to the Doctors office with him ?
There are places for a man to find a woman let it be a whore house, a companionship or dating service, or the closest porn shop.
I think your wife felt a little more then pity. I think you need to have him move out before he wrecks your marrage.
2007-09-28 16:40:33 · answer #3 · answered by pjfisherman2 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you want to provide him comfort, leave him in the room with his own bottle of lotion. If you want to go all out, buy him a blow up doll or a rubber female genitalia and leave him be. Letting him take advantage of your wife is not really appropriate, even if he is dying.
2007-09-28 17:03:57 · answer #4 · answered by Jim Bob 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Either you have a very cheesy idea for a mills and boons novel, or someone's not looking at the bigger picture here. Whatever it is, this surely is not the best way to provide or seek comfort.
2007-09-28 16:33:51 · answer #5 · answered by Gaymes Last Orchestra 6 · 4⤊ 1⤋
Either you're really naive or you have a funny way of thinking about "comfort."
Hon, that's not "providing comfort" that's HAVING AN AFFAIR!
2007-09-28 16:36:59 · answer #6 · answered by DEATH 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
nothing wrong with that if that was actually happening. but that just doesnt sound like the providing of comfort that this old man needs..
2007-09-28 16:43:54 · answer #7 · answered by storeetjdjay 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
sounds like a poor old pervert , he should know better if thats ur wife! no excuse dieing or not.
2007-09-28 16:58:51 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I dont see that your telling the truth
Just bragging or showing off
What ever
2007-09-28 16:34:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 2⤋
I think its up to both of you. Anyway you are nice cause you will even consider it.
2007-09-28 17:33:31 · answer #10 · answered by Sickxually Inactive 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
no its good that ur providing that to him so he leaves this world
more happly
edit:i didnt read the extra just question so yeah.......
2007-09-28 16:32:59 · answer #11 · answered by McLovin 4 · 1⤊ 3⤋