guys can answer if they want...
me and friends were discussing...
if_God forbid_a girl was kidnapped by a guy or two and he's going to rape her and threatened her with a knife or sulfuric acid(mayet nar) if she fought back or screamed,would she....
1)do what he says so he won't kill her and as ppl say u can survive rape but not survive death?
2)fight him to death and scream and kick even if he cut her and if she died defending herself,she will go to heaven?
2007-09-28 09:27:02 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Travel ➔ Africa & Middle East ➔ Egypt
eman g....imshalla she will go to heaven "man mat doun 3erdeh" and "man mat doun nafseh"
2007-09-28 10:08:08 · update #1
In a situation like this , God forbid, I think my instincts would take over, not my mind. I would die fighting the filthy pigs to the last breath of my life. Just the thought of being touched by animals like that is unbearable. Even if my mind was telling me to play along to survive, my natural reflex would be to go down kicking and screaming. It's not a matter of choice for me, it's a matter of instinct.
Allah yisam7ik ya Rana. What is it with all the gross questions today?! First circumcision then rape?! This sucks! I'm in a bad mood enough as it is already! I'm pissed off that society has such double standards. When a guy commits such horrible acts, they say boys will be boys, and when a girl is a rape victim they condemn her as if she was the criminal. As if it isn't bad enough the way females are treated as sexual objects, mutilated and killed for "honour"! I'll shut up now or else you won't hear the end of it from me!
Edit:
I just remembered another thing that has my blood boiling every time I think about it. That damn idiotic law that states that the filthy pig can get away with his crime if he marries the victim!!! What the hell is that supposed to mean? I mean what kind of message does it send? Any suitor who was turned down could just rape the girl then marry her later ! Who are the bloody idiots who made this damn law? I don't know if it is still applied, but the whole thing is just to abominable to believe.What kind of life would the girl have with that pig if she does marry him?! She will live with the person who killed off her spirit only to be raped again and again by him for the rest of her life. The punishment for rapists should be castration and death, plain and simple.
2007-09-28 09:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 13⤊ 0⤋
I really like morticias answer and farahs.. for me I would most likely do what I had to do to survive.. now if at that time I felt being quiet would be the way to live I would do it. Now this law you mention farah? Wow I never heard of such a law and right now I feel like i will throw up again and I thought the female circumcision was bad.. All I have to say is that Rape is Rape and no matter what it is not the womans fault and no blame should be on the woman.. The people who make these laws farah mentioned and the ppl who rape these women and children well they will get the punishment they deserve God will make sure of that.
2007-09-28 19:49:20 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree with farah. I would suffer the consequence of death rather than succumb. Why should filthy pigs be allowed to degrade females in this way&in some cases be patted on the back for doing so. I would definitely fight back&scream my lungs off too!
2007-09-28 12:27:49 · answer #3 · answered by cleo x pat 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
when its a rape subject no one will think about consequences or even hell or heaven.its gonna be him against not the girl but a real mad crazy one.so she will do whatever to help herself.and to me im gonna do whatever just to make him regret the minute he saw me.its totally wrong to say 'u can survive rape but not death'.because at that minute life is gonna pain to the girl and its gonna be hell for her.what the point of living that kind of life?and for 2)no one know if she gonna go to heaven or hell?and who cares?is she really while that gonna think about that?definitely NO.all that shes gonna think about it is how to let her dignity w charafa survive.its really hard to give people what we don't wanna give and what is precious to us.so personally i choose the hard way and i think about death more than living a life with that.so i defend myself til death because i don't give anything to anybody and i surely gonna take from him he's life if he tried to.
2007-09-29 03:43:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends from girl to girl, Most of them would keep quiet and hope to get out of it alive because the survival instinct that God gave to us makes us want to live a long happy life. Being raped doesn't not bring you any shame. Being able to survive rape shows that you a strong woman.
Ask yourself these questions as well, boys too can get raped!
2007-09-28 10:36:27 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
well Rana, i usually go with choice number two, although when it comes to the sulphuric acid stuff, I'm just like paralysed with the thought !!!
but still choice no (2) is the one that I'll stick to -God Forbid- .
as Farah said, i won't bear that such savage beasts do this to me, my soul and my body............this is intolerable !!!
and again, for me, if i chose case no (1)........... may be I'll survive, but I'll only survive with my body......... while my soul , self respect and self esteem will vanish away........... I'll be distracted and destroyed........... I'll survive, but i won't trust anybody, I'll live with fear deep inside from any man.......... i won't get married, and if I'm already married, i won't be able to be touched by my husband (i think obvious what i mean) ................ there will be a "COMPLEX" from men !!
last thing, I'm not shy from what I'm saying, for it's a psycological viewpoint , and the most important it's not haram.
2007-09-28 12:38:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK, I respect choice 2 and those who would go for it, or say they would.
But,.. what good would it do if you die. Is that better for your children, parents, spouse?
wouldn't you agree with me that that's the easier way out?
Do what he says and survive. It's not like dying for a cause.
Prophet Mohammad (PBUH) pardoned Belal when under torture said bad things about god, what does that say to you?
I would understand if you died saving someone else or even got raped instead of someone else, say your sister. that's another story.
2007-09-28 13:58:00 · answer #7 · answered by Arabian Dune 5 · 4⤊ 0⤋
When such event takes place, fear will dominate the girl , she will has two values in the balance, life against honor ,she will be the only one who will choose the priority under that circumstance,
In light with our Oriental mentality, for sure the girl must defend herself whatever it costs.
My openion in this case, life is more valuable .
2007-09-28 10:31:59 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
she should know that she should stand.GOD will help her.nobody knows how but every thing can change in a second.if she kills by her boy friend it's very better to loss her virginity.i think that her boyfriend is only and only exaggerating and he is very chicken hearted.GOD will give very very big reward to that girl who stand against a rapist ,MAY BE MORE THAN HEAVEN.
2007-09-30 22:33:27 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
For me, i agree on option number ( 2 )
if i was a girl, i will fight to death,
i don't care about death in that kind of stuff
as a matter of fact, if i died, i will be martyr ( shahid )
2007-09-28 12:00:42 · answer #10 · answered by Kevin 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋