Did you guys see my "Husband" question? This lady named JT said I was a jerk for what I did as far as testing out a theory. She said I was "nothing to look at". In other words, she called me ugly. My confidence is considerably shot, and I'm wondering why my wife married me in the first place.
Never mind JT doesn't have the stones to show her face, or that she stepped out on her first husband, while I'm a faithful guy.
Really, am I THAT ugly? That girl has me vexed and doubting myself... I'm in a dark place right now...
2007-09-28 06:23:45 · 34 answers · asked by Anonymous in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
My previous question was a JOKE!! I was just trying to get people to think about what they mean by "best friend". I meant nothing by it, honest!!
2007-09-28 06:28:57 · update #1
PETE!!!!!! AWWWW Punkin....
I knew as I was reading her answer this morning that you'd be feeling this way!!! Think of the thousands of people you've talked to in here....she's just one, and the only one to say this. Women tend to stick together on the issue of a man "disrespecting" another woman. Chalk it up to her trying to be on your wife's side on that question. You love your wife, as we all know, so think of JT as someone who "had your wife's back". Since JT doesn't know you, she cut you down in the only way she knew she could. By commenting on your picture. Don't let her win by believing her!!!!!!
Ok Cutie Pattootie???? xxx
2007-09-28 07:01:14 · answer #1 · answered by Kim 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Okay, first of all you are not ugly at all and you look perfectly normal. I'm sure you look quite handsome in a suit or other nice attire.
However, I looked back on your first question and I can see where JT and other women, including me, would be offended. I also see from this question that you were kidding in your first question. Still, no one knew that at the time, since everything is taken so seriously on the computer because it's hard to determine humor on the screen.
I can see why JT got so upset and saw red. She mistook it that you were some dude with a big ego and she wanted to put you in your place. I'm sure she didn't really mean you were really ugly.
Also, to answer your first question -- yes, my husband is my best friend and I know I'm his best friend, although we don't share the same interests. I don't get into cars and he doesn't get into books. We still have a common ground and we always have each other's backs -- that's what makes a best friend.
Now to your first question -- why would an educated, successful, school teacher -- special ed. at that -- take some person in Computer Land seriously?
Anyway, just don't go out checking out other women -- especially with your wife around. LOL!
2007-09-28 06:40:55 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO, you're not THAT ugly, you're not ugly at all. That woman sounds like a sad bitter little person to me.
You look like a cuddly bear to me. :) You know what is the most attractive attribute in a person (to me anyway)? Confidence. It can go a long way in making a hot person ugly and a homely person good looking. No what I mean?
2007-09-28 06:29:28 · answer #3 · answered by slushpile reader 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should not worry about what a stranger thinks of you! You do not come home to her at night and love her, so why does it matter!!!! Please, do not let her affect you in such a way!!! You are very handsome guy and a wonderful husband...You know that, God knows that and so does your wife and child. That is all that matters:) Take Care and cheer up!!!!
2007-09-28 07:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Awwww, you know how people behave on here sometimes. Some people feel the need to make personal slams on someone if they feel offended, angered, etc. Let it roll off of you like water off a duck's back.
And no, you're not ugly.
2007-09-28 07:17:32 · answer #5 · answered by Sturm und Drang 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not ugly. And you're wife married you because she was attracted to you and your personality. F#ck JT. No more dark places......
2007-09-28 06:27:58 · answer #6 · answered by candy- capped 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man keep your confidence up. I'm not one to judge another guy's appearance but from what I can tell, you are one cool dude. I'd hang out with ya....but let's leave it up to the girls to see if you're ugly or not. By the way, if they judge you based on your appearance...eff it!
2007-09-28 06:29:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Actually, I think this question is more of a joke than the 'husband-best friend' one !
That was an excellent question.
Your OK.
2007-09-28 06:38:24 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's trippin you are handsome. Plus the opinion of some idiotic person you dont even know shouldnt matter to you. Whats important is what your wife and yourself think!
2007-09-28 06:27:17 · answer #9 · answered by winndixie 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
your wife saw something in you that goes way beyond the realms of physical beauty otherwise she would have never chosen you in the 1st place. Don't let 'em get you down.
2007-09-28 06:28:13 · answer #10 · answered by Ink Corporate 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋