Ok I'm a girl so guys please advise! Say you and a friend (girl) you had been flirting with a bit in chat for mths get together one night (kisses++ but not sex). Ok, you both feel little bit awkward next day and you (the guy) cancel an outing you were going on with friends. Say you live in different states and she contacts you few days later by chat & its friendly and then she suggests meeting up again saying that she had felt strange the other night as you guys hadnt really talked about it. Say you don't reply to her question..what does this mean? Are you not interested? Worried about long distance? Pls advise!
2007-09-28 06:06:14 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Psychology
Its hard to judge silence, it could mean a great deal of things. It could be he decided against a relationship and would rather not explain, and it could be he is afraid of commitment. Your going to have to get him to talk about it to decide anything.
2007-09-28 06:10:38 · answer #1 · answered by Steve C 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats quite the predicament.
Actions and thoughts are interpreted differently from one male specimen to the next.
One may use -Not replying- As a way of saying, I'm not interested.
It could also mean, I'm scared, Or, i Don't want to get hurt again.
Then again it could also mean hes interested, but afraid to talk about it, or even make the first move.
Hopefully helpful...
~Jim.
2007-09-28 06:11:57 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-09 23:38:11 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
had a friend like that, his hard drive crashed and he was out of communication for a week, I never had his number and he did not have mine as well.
2007-09-28 06:15:29 · answer #4 · answered by word UP!! 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To me he is avoiding you and is not interested.
Sorry =(
2007-09-28 06:10:56 · answer #5 · answered by stanggt3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋