i crave gay sex but i know that it is wrong
2007-09-28 05:47:38 · 24 answers · asked by john f 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Lesbian, Gay, Bisexual, and Transgender
i crave sex with men...i know that it is wrong but in my mind they are just so great.. i know that i am not crazy.. but iam 48 and all this started at about 12. is there anyone else out there that feels the same as me
2007-09-28 05:54:23 · update #1
it's a choice. what it all boils down to is that people want it to be biological because then they cannot discriminate by law. It's a choice and one that people should be proud of making. whatever you choose it is your choice and always valid.
2007-09-28 05:51:10 · answer #1 · answered by mishle 3 · 1⤊ 6⤋
There are a lot of men who struggle with their orientation into their late 40's, and even later. Always because "they know it is wrong."
They throw away many good years of happiness by buying into misinterpretations of scripture and by not investigating the subject both of orientation and the underlying concepts underpinning morality.
You can languish in the closet and continue to be unhappy, or you can put aside what you were preached, and read up on the subject, and take a good long look at yourself. You've always had these feelings. Does that really have any impact on whether you're a decent man or not?
Good luck. The closet is not a home.
2007-09-28 13:01:04 · answer #2 · answered by Clint 7 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I love men too. I crave them sometimes, but not to the point of obsession. There is nothing wrong with that. Good sex is good sex. Man or women.
2007-09-28 14:21:37 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, I wouldn't even get near someone as close-minded as the person above me... In males, scientists have reached the conclusion that it is some sort of "homosexual gene"... but the environment that the person develops in also influences. It is not a question of nature vs nurture but a combination of both. There is times when people are just curious and once they explore they might decide whether they like it or not. Some people learn to suppress their feelings due to their environments. I can talk from 1st hand experience and I should say that if you really are curious about it then perhaps you should find someone serious to experiment with.
2007-09-28 12:56:54 · answer #4 · answered by knowledgeable_one 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Your only choice is to be who you are or be what others think you should be.
I must have missed the memo that told everyone we had a choice about our sexual orientation. I don't remember making a choice to be straight.
Performing homosexual acts IS a choice just like performing heterosexual sex is a choice. Desiring someone of the same sex vs. the opposite sex, has nothing to do with choice.
2007-09-28 12:55:50 · answer #5 · answered by lunatic 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You don't chose to be gay your born that way. it's a chemical unbalance in your head when you are born. There is nothing wrong with it it's ones personal feelings for it. But maybe you not gay your BI and you like both sexes. and once again there is nothing wrong with that either. if you want it go and get it. why Deni your feelings for what people think or how you feel apparently you don't feel that way cus you wouldn't have brought it to the whole world
2007-09-28 12:52:50 · answer #6 · answered by shy 4 · 5⤊ 2⤋
this psychology thing. usually hormones would taken place in controlling human. more hormones come out, it would cause more tendency to satisfy needs. gay sex is still taboo to most Malaysians.if you feel u really don't have a choice, and still to practice gay sex, go on.but the implications towards it, you need to take the risk.your question is blur whether you are straight or not. im afraid your tendecy to having gay sex would cause some effect at in your social life.
2007-09-28 12:57:12 · answer #7 · answered by sweetylemonmas 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Nobody chooses to be gay...why would someone make a choice that would ensure they get discriminated against by idiots like yourself. Being gay makes life more difficult and I think every gay person wished they could be straight at some stage. It's not a choice...
2007-09-28 12:52:49 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
What do you mean you "know" its wrong. Who says its wrong??? If you are attracted to the same sex and not the opposite then maybe you answered you own question. So, if you want gay sex and aren't attracted to the opposite sex you could either live a barren existance or try it out and see if you like it. Either way be happy with yourself gay or straight. IT IS NOT WRONG TO BE GAY.
2007-09-28 12:51:54 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 3⤋
Then you're only choice is to be true to yourself or live a life of denial. People don't choose to be gay anymore than they choose to be straight. You are what you are and you should ask yourself what is wrong about being gay. Not what do people tell you is wrong with it but what do you think is wrong with it.
good luck
2007-09-28 12:52:16 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 3⤋
being gay isnt a choice! its like sayin is it a choice for who i am attracted to no you carnt like someone you dont achually like the look of there isnt anything wrong craving for men sex its like every other man and girl who crave there isnt anything you can do becouses thats who you are and hey men are so god dam sexy who wouldnt want to sh..ag them!
2007-09-28 12:53:32 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 1⤋