I have observed from watching porn that when the guy chokes, slaps, spits on and generally abuses the woman, she becomes wilder and makes the sex a LOT more pleasurable for the guy.
Even the women seem to enjoy this more, than the gentler, kinder love-making.
2007-09-28 05:40:11 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Social Science ➔ Gender Studies
Have you ever tried jumping off a high rise building after seeing a guy jump uninjured in a thriller movie?
2007-09-28 06:18:04 · answer #1 · answered by Lioness 6 · 2⤊ 1⤋
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2016-07-27 01:34:19 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well consider that you're watching a porn- that's not really a mirror of real life just like any other movie. and notice that you mentioned that it makes the sex a lot more enjoyable for the man when the woman reacts to abuse. who's watching the porn? probably a guy. this means that the entire depicted fantasy is aimed towards a male audience (most likely). sure, some women probably like rough sex, or rape fantasies, but i feel safe in saying that it's not as common as the porn industry would like you to believe. that's kind of where the allure lies with porn, they're fulfilling your fantasy for you. the gentler kinder loving making isn't as interesting. why watch that when you can just have that kind of vanilla sex with your wife or girlfriend?
2007-09-28 06:42:38 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Maybe it's because you are watching porn...most mainstream porn only seems to serve the male fantasy of dominating a woman in bed. I think some women like it rough in be sometimes, but if someone were to spit on me during sex I'd be super pissed and kick them out. How many women do you see having orgasms in these porn films...my guess is NONE. That means that they are ACTING for the sake of the man. Unfortunately, many women in porn are accustomed to abuse as they were often sexually abused as children...they have grown used to being used and abused.
My advice is to lay off the porn a little bit and try and engage in a real, healthy sexual relationship in which you both can express a wild side, but be respectful of each other at the same time. And please learn how to give your woman and orgasm...please? It's pathetic when a guy can't do this and makes the sex all about him...
2007-09-28 05:46:33 · answer #4 · answered by kleo 4 · 5⤊ 1⤋
When they make porn they are acting just like in any other movie. Most porn producers will make several different scenarios to cover all viewers fetishes. So they have 2 women 1 man scene, 2 men 1 woman scene, the black with white, the room with multiple couples, the scene outside.... this also includes the "rough" scene. They offer a variety to try to cover as many different turn ons as they can. They are all just actors acting a role.
2007-09-28 05:48:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 1⤋
If you believe porn reflects reality, do you think men enjoy choking, slapping and spitting on women? Do you think the the average guy enjoys sex more if a woman is in pain? Do you believe the average woman would enjoy being hit and degraded outside of sex, and so would men? Would you enjoy being spit on, choked, slapped, and beaten? How are women less human than you?
If you believe soft porn, then do you believe hard porn, that women find rape enjoyable, and so do men? Do you believe that women enjoy being murdered, and men enjoy doing it?
Do you believe that men enjoy being raped and murdered as well?
Let us know where you live, so we can clear out whenever you leave your house. Your ideas are a danger to society.
2007-09-28 05:59:17 · answer #6 · answered by edith clarke 7 · 2⤊ 2⤋
Quit stereotyping women. It shouldn't be hard to understand that just because some women like something doesn't mean all do. A lot of men will pay a dominatrix $300 an hour or more to abuse them. Does that mean you would? When it comes to men AND women it's different strokes for different folks. Not hard to comprehend.
2007-09-28 23:29:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some women do. choking is a specific fetish. People who do this in real life do enjoy it, and some porn actresses enjoy it as well that's why they took that role, others are acting.
It's something that varies from woman to woman.
2007-09-28 07:16:19 · answer #8 · answered by Manny 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't say abusive.
A lot of women do prefer to be dominated somewhat by her mate when engaging in sex. My wife for one likes to pretend that she is being raped. This fantasy allows her to believe she has no choice, and for some reason, it does it for her. Other women like the idea of a soft slap or spank specifically because they are "Bad little girls" and want to be punished.
All women do not prescribe to this form of play (or at least will admit to it), but a lot do, maybe even a few who answered this question. BUT you must understand the difference between what happens in porn and what happens in real life. Nothing you do should should ever be taken so far that it can be mistaken for "Abuse".
EDIT: And JeepJeep is correct with her summary about porn. Good insight.
2007-09-28 05:44:28 · answer #9 · answered by theCATALYST 5 · 5⤊ 3⤋
to answer your question, I'm seriously into that I let my husband hit me, punch me, push me around what ever you is abusive, he does it to me, but only in the bedroom, outside hes a whole different person with such a caring side. I been abused alot by my ex's and i slowly started to get used to it where now i ******* love it.
2015-06-28 04:02:38 · answer #10 · answered by ? 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that some women might enjoy abusive or aggressive sex but I don't think many do none of the women I've been with have every hinted to it they usually talked down about it.
2007-09-28 05:53:54 · answer #11 · answered by Loverboy666 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋