My friend has always been prettier than me. she is a model and has been in sevral commercials, all the boys fancy her and i am SO jelous! i have always had low self esteem,but since she became a model and looks greater than ever i feel so useless and i kind of hate myself. what can I do? please help me!
2007-09-28 04:47:00 · 10 answers · asked by 0123321 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
You could get a life..... You could not be anymore shallow. There are so many problems in the world and you're upset over who is prettier.... That's just sad I hope you never have to deal with any real issues in your life.... Good luck, your going to need it !!!
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2007-09-28 04:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Mac 4 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Well, u are very honest, I must say....
You have to find your OWN strength, don't base your failures or success on the life and events of your friend. Just because she seems to have it all on the outside does not necessarily mean that she has it all together on the inside.
No two lives are the same. There is a reason why she is your friend and vice versa. Be happy for her, but at the same time, you find your niche, what do you enjoy, you walk with confidence, you establish your self-worth, you cannot and will not be compared to her. You are fabulous all by yourself. Hate yourself? Never! You sit down and get it together girl, shake yourself and fling your hair, you are the bomb!!!! It's going to take time but if you walk with the shine that says "look at me, I'm beautiful", honey look how many heads will turn! Jealousy is classless and very ugly, lose it and get it together, sweetie!
2007-09-28 11:58:40 · answer #2 · answered by MadameJazzy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, please stop beating yourself up! You are a unique individual and no one else is like YOU. I'm sure you have many wonderful qualities and talents of your own.
I have found a couple of websites about building self-confidence and one in particular for women.
Love yourself, love your friend. Accept your differences and learn to appreciate yourself as well as her. Do nice things for yourself -- get a makeover, a new hair cut.. pamper yourself.. how about a nice bubble bath with candles? Buy a new outfit once in a while when you can afford it!
Do your best.. you are JUST AS GOOD AS your friend.... a unique individual.
take care and i hope you will find the time to look at these websites. hugs
2007-09-28 12:34:09 · answer #3 · answered by letterstoheather 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she is truly your friend then you should be happy for her. Maybe someday you'll be able to say "I knew her way back when" and some of her wealth just might spill over to you in the form of her inviting you to visit and stay with her in New York or Hollywood, wherever. But why be jealous of somebody else's good fortune, especially that of a friend? Maybe you could use some psychological counceling.
2007-09-28 12:06:13 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hate to say this, but I am pretty one with my friend. I KNOW how she feels and I try to make her feel better by telling that she is pretty and give her compliments and spend time with her. I love her sooo much and I hate that she feels this way. I was an ugly duckling so to say and we have been friends for 11 years, so I have just recently became "pretty". She says that if I would have just met her today that she would have liked me because of this. I feels so bad and just wish that she would tell me how she feels, and what I could do to make her feel better, rather than bottle it all up inside. I would suggest that you be yourself and try not to judge yourself.....EVERYONE is jealous is someone else. I am jealous of how free she is, as I am bound to my "perfections".Be proud of who you are!!!!!!
2007-09-28 12:23:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd like to meet her. Is that the kind of thing you get. I know how you feel. A girl gave me her number one time then asked me to give it to my friend. Arggg..
Listen, you are who you are. You are of no less value because your friend is doing well. Stop comparing yourself to her. I bet she'd be sad if she heard how you felt. She likes you for you. You should too.
2007-09-28 11:52:55 · answer #6 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
my gfs are all jealous of me too, my family has money,my new bf is a sexy lawyer and i have everything they can't have,OH and i'm good looking.so i dumped them b/c they started talking ****.
you need to get some self esteeem, i'm sure your friend doesn't feel that way. maybe she can help. she's your friend, you should be able to tell her or find friends that are not as good looking as her.life sucks
2007-09-28 11:52:07 · answer #7 · answered by Adrienne L 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get uglier friends
2007-09-28 11:50:42 · answer #8 · answered by ♥Sweet♥ 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
punch her in the face and break her nose..then she wont be prettier than you
2007-09-28 11:50:04 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
Get a gun and kill her! plain and simple.
2007-09-28 11:55:23 · answer #10 · answered by Brandon C 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋