with me ever since. She even told me day before her wedding if i wanted her she wouldnt go through the marriage. Now she trying to sleep with me hard, but ive been married one year now. Its tempting because my wife has been in a foreign country the last months. However, given the time my x has been trying to get me back i dont think she would accept its just for the sex. What should i do?
2007-09-28 04:29:16 · 8 answers · asked by lee l 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Think about how you really feel about your wife and whether you would want her to be sleeping with someone else in this other country. If you love your wife you need to end all contact with this ex and if not you need to leave your wife. It is never okay to cheat. Apparently you didn't want your ex or she would've called off her own marriage. So I think its time to cut all ties with her and give your wife the love and respect that you promised to her when you said I do.
2007-09-28 04:33:41 · answer #1 · answered by Julie J 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
please remember that there is some reason(s) that you and her didn't work out in the first place. And you must not of wanted her badly enough to have her call off her wedding. Tell her your not interested, even if you are tempted to take her up on her offer. Do you want to be the guy that cheats on his wife? Your ex should be ashamed of herself trying to be the girl that puts you in that situation. You need to make a clear and drawn out line for her not to cross. She is disrespecting your marriage and you will be too if you don't put a stop to her advances. Your wife would be upset if she caught wind of what you've been up to since she's been gone . tell the girl to back off or take a hike.
2007-09-28 11:44:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you do is entirely up to you. no one can make that decision for you. you're a big boy.
first of all you're married.. how would you feel if your wife slept with her ex?
thinking about that.. why dont you just pop in a good porno flick and fix your needs..
remember, shes your ex.. theres a reason you guys broke up.. keep that reason in your mind. if it broke you up once, chances are it would break you up again..
2007-09-28 11:37:24 · answer #3 · answered by beb27 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cut off all communication with your ex - this can only cause many many problems. If you wanted your ex back, you should not have married your wife.
2007-09-28 11:34:11 · answer #4 · answered by NAN G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her you are married, are not interested and will get a restraining order if she doesn't leave you alone. Stay faithful to your wife dude, this chick is nothing but TROUBLE !!!
2007-09-28 11:44:42 · answer #5 · answered by kitkat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break off any contact with her if you want your marriage to work. Don't give in to temptation.
2007-09-28 11:34:32 · answer #6 · answered by LadyRed03 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
be carefully
you don't want to loss both of them now
don't cheat...............
2007-09-28 11:35:50 · answer #7 · answered by maya 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid her!!!
2007-09-28 11:33:55 · answer #8 · answered by Spring 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋