or will feelings attraction is happening n going to the next level of good friends n then, as lovers?
2007-09-28 04:22:11 · 13 answers · asked by candie 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
I'd say keep it check, don't let it get physical, but you don't have to stop. Human's love the ego boost that attention from the opposite sex offers, after you've been married a while it's good to know that others still find you attractive. And it can enhance your marriage because you'll be more confident and feel more sexual at home. You just have to be careful because it's easy to take it too far.
2007-09-28 04:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Bull in a china shop 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My husband was exchanging sms messages with his married colleague. It developed into an affair and the ***** actually panic when it was out in the open So I believe there is already some kind of an agenda to get to know the other married colleague. For men is ego stoking, a woman, other than their wife paying attention to them. And for the woman, knowing that the colleague is married, she shouldn't be exchanging SMSes behind her husband's back. Well, I think she should show to her own husband her sms message exchanges with the married colleague and check out his reaction. It would be so fun..rite?
2007-09-28 22:14:19 · answer #2 · answered by Katie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are well aware of the direction that things are heading.
1.Colleagues>>>
2.SMS>>
3.GoodFriends>>
4.Lovers and finally will come,
5.Two Divorces.
Be very careful what you wish for .
Where there's a smoke there is a Fire. Douse the Flames right away.BETTER SAFE THAN SORRY(No More SMSs.
2007-10-05 23:50:39 · answer #3 · answered by Truth Source 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry, I may not have good words for you, but have you developed a feeling for your married colleague or vice versa?
It all depends on what type of sms messages. Flirtatious messages such as "miss you badly, lots of love, hugs and kisses, etc." can be bad especially if found out by their spouses (it can cause break-up to a family).
Why must both of sms each other rather than talk openly since in the same office unless both of you are cheating on your spouses.
Be careful of "karma" and what goes around comes around.
2007-09-28 22:11:22 · answer #4 · answered by Charlyn Lim 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People always want to see how close to the fire they can get without getting burned.
When the message exchange between two married colleagues ceases to be professional and becomes personal, I'd say that they are on dangerous ground.
2007-09-28 11:44:50 · answer #5 · answered by mt75689 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The question I have is why are two colleagues who are married wanting more? Not only is it risky just working together, even single, but you two are married. I would remain colleague friends and nothing more. If you are questioning, you are starting to have feelings.
2007-09-28 11:26:37 · answer #6 · answered by CC 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the majority of lovers start out as friends first. i see nothing wrong with sms messages as long as they are just friends and intend on keeping it that way.
2007-09-28 12:01:28 · answer #7 · answered by redpeach_mi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would be inappropriate, even if it doesn't turn into anything. If they are writing something that they would not want their spouse to see, or has nothing to do with work, it should stop. End of story.
2007-10-06 00:18:24 · answer #8 · answered by MoonGoddess 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it becomes the town gossip and things don't work out, whoops! Somebody gets hurt.
2007-09-28 11:25:10 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
yes just like you said it
2007-10-05 19:41:38 · answer #10 · answered by charlesjerrell 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋