...He complains all the time...with waiters, in the stores...etc..he seems very picky and needy....not with me though...ok this is a begining of relationship...only one month...
so what do you think....I'm a right to complain with this kind of guy?
2007-09-28 01:53:14 · 16 answers · asked by Aquamarine 5 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
since your flawless I say dump him and find someone perfect like you.
2007-09-28 01:56:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
No. It not worth it! Full stop. We've all got flaws i must admit, but some people have got it BAD. The only way i could settle for someone with a terrible/annoying flaw is knowing it would never trouble me again. But if i could'nt and knowing its always gonna pop up from time to time i just could'nt cope. I'd try and see if it can be sorted out. If not then we're both gonna be un-happy. Its not worth it.
2007-09-28 15:29:51 · answer #2 · answered by †100% Angel† 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Since you have only been dating for only 1 month, I think it is too early to think of "spending your life" with this person. But if you are in a stage in your life where you want to settle down, thus, you are trying to choose the "one"....only know that any flaws you see in a person NOW magnify once you are married. So...it will continue to bother you. I would suggest bringing up your concern to this person in a very non-threatening, caring way, and asking them what his perception is of how he treats others. Then...offer your point of view, and let the communication stay easy and open. Good luck!
2007-09-28 08:57:45 · answer #3 · answered by wateripple 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You're doing the right thing weighing all the pros and cons. Why devote a lot of time and effort into a relationship that doesn't show much promise? It's all about your tolerance level. What you're willing to go through to make a relationship work out. You know I wish you all the happiness in the world.
2007-09-28 17:41:54 · answer #4 · answered by Smarty Pants™ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why are you worrying about spending the rest of your life with this guy when you've only been together a month????
Don't worry about it. Let the relationship take it's own course. If you really want to know how he'll treat you, pay attention to the way he treats his mother and his grandmother. It hasn't lied to me yet.
2007-09-28 08:56:55 · answer #5 · answered by Miss_Cookie _Monster 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I couldn't take it, but hey everyone's different. Besides, how do you know he's caring and loving in only one month. All relationships have the honeymoon stage and this is it. Give it some time and you're question will be answered.
2007-09-28 09:02:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, he complains about waiter, you complain about him, I don't see what's the difference lol
Everyone have their own share of flaws, if not complaining about waiters, it will be something else. We all have our own flaws, as long as he loves you, that's all that matters. He doesn't need to love the waiter as well =)
2007-09-28 08:59:19 · answer #7 · answered by Hornet One 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get away as soon as possible! He has two sides, and while he is 'courting' you he will be sweet and loving, but when he knows he has you he will be abusive and you stay with this person you will regret it for the rest of your life.
2007-09-28 08:57:03 · answer #8 · answered by Matthew O 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
only one month? this is your "honey moon" phase when usually, everything seems perfect! if you're already annoyed with him now, i'm sure it will only become more and more annoying the longer you are with him. in my opinion, it doesn't sound like it's such a good idea to think about spending your life with someone who's already annoying you after only 1 month.
2007-09-28 08:56:31 · answer #9 · answered by Katie C 3 · 3⤊ 1⤋
yes you are right to complain because eventually all that will be turned towards you. you really should talk to him and tell him how you feel about his actions and see if that helps. if it doesnt end it before you get to involved with him!!
2007-09-28 08:56:37 · answer #10 · answered by mom of 3 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
no get out now. cause next year when he's complainin u r chillin with ur mom too much u r gonna b like WHAT!. but this is how he was when u met him. good luck girl. that guy sux. be happy with life!!!
2007-09-28 08:56:55 · answer #11 · answered by msblack23 3 · 2⤊ 2⤋