Well me & my boyfriend have been together for 3 years & im always the one to crack on to him first & want s.e.x but he doesnt ever its like hes not interested anymore hes not cheating on me cause we are together 24/7 but when i tell him i want another guy cause hes just not into s.e.x as much as i am he gets angry & says iff you ever touch another guy hes gonna cut the other guys d.ick off !LOL! but the thing is why is he so worried about me touching another iff he never wants to have s.e.x with me? We are both 20 is it time for me to move on & go have s.e.x with someone that wants it just as much as i do? Because hes the only guy ive ever had s.e.x with what do i do?
2007-09-28 00:38:25 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
the problem is that you are a nymphomaniac
2007-09-28 01:03:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If your BF is 20 and his sex drive is very low it may be for reasons that you don't know about yet (physical, mental etc.) Instead of talking about sex with someone else maybe you should back off a bit on the sex demand and spend some time talking with him to see if he will discuss his reasons for not wanting sex. He may be under some extreme pressure at work or from family, or he may not be feeling well. What he needs right now is some support and the knowledge that you want to be helpful not critical of him. Of course there is a chance that he may say he just wants to get out of the relationship but one way or another at least you should try to get to the underlying reason.
2007-09-28 01:46:58 · answer #2 · answered by YoungFella 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'm not attempting to be recommend so please don't get indignant or sense undesirable yet perhaps he isn't drawn to you anymore. you're saying you have been mutually for a whilst, perhaps you 2 desire some area from eachother yet if you consider which you suggested you're pregnant it incredibly is an impossibility, each and every pregnant lady desires her husband/boyfriend. My boyfriend grow to be like that too for a whilst, and while they act like that what they desire is so you might step as much as the plate and take administration while it consists of intercourse. they only desire you to whip it out and initiate off giving oral after which so you might basically leap ontop. i be attentive to, whoa, yet it incredibly is the reality lol. So spice issues up slightly when you have that toddler girly keep that guy on his feet believe me it works with mines! solid success sweetheart, and don't enable me make you sense like he now not cares and loves you because of the fact he does, he's in basic terms a guy, adult men are strange each and every so often.
2016-10-20 05:14:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
heh, I just never understand why you would be more upset with the person your boyfriend/girlfriend cheated with than with your partner. Anyway, I would talk about it and ask why and all that. but me I want sex all the time. So if she doesnt its not gonna work. What one guy wont do for you, another will. So I think you should do almost anything to keep your partner happy
2007-09-28 01:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Flying Spagetti Monster 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off, don't threaten him with having sex with another guy in an attempt to provoke him into having sex with you...that probably won't ever turn out the way you want it. secondly, maybe the problem is you guys spend too much time with one another. a young couple like yourselves shouldn't need to spend all day, everyday with one another. you guys might get tired of each other and lose interest, if it hasn't happened already. try seeing each other fewer times a week, making each time you do spend with each other that much more special. maybe then his sexual drive with rise and you won't be in the predicament.
2007-09-28 02:11:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel.
It can be tough. You want it so bad you are practically begging, right?
But, think again.
It sounds like he really loves you, and don't throw that away because of a big sex drive.
People are different, and everybody has different needs.
Sit down and talk to him, tell him how you feel.
Just tell him your needs, and let him explain his.
I'm sure he is still attracted to you, he's just different.
Give your relationship another chance.
2007-09-28 00:54:39 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's 20 and has no sex drive now............
I think you need to get some answers out of him as to why he feels that way.
2007-09-28 00:44:21 · answer #7 · answered by bloodshotcyclops 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need to ask yourself if you are willing to be in a sexless relationship at 20........ if not, get out, if yes, then stick it out and go toy shoppin
2007-09-28 00:49:37 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋