I am due to marry my girlfirend of 12 years tomorrow. The problem is that i have been meeting up with her main bridesmaid for sex while she is at wedding dress fittings. I dont know whether to go ahead with the wedding and still play both of them. Advice please
2007-09-27 23:37:58 · 52 answers · asked by bernard s 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
2 suggestions
Take the bridesmaid on the honeymoon with you
or
Go on Jeremy Kyle
2007-09-27 23:48:15 · answer #1 · answered by Caz 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
I think you should do the 'right' thing and go and see her tonight and call off the wedding - it may seem cruel now but in the end it's better than getting married for the wrong reasons. The 'other' woman might get sick of this also and you will end up with no one - which I think you deserve. How would you feel if she slept with the best man - which clearly you are not! What kind of friend of hers is this woman who would assist her on her wedding day whilst sleeping with her husband to be.
2007-09-27 23:56:30 · answer #2 · answered by floey1975 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
NO....you should not marry her if you are in love with her bridesmaid, or it just sex??? Mr please, there are so many of you out there that can't think with the head on their shoulders, they only think with the head between their legs. Wake up, call off the wedding the and **** the bridesmaid all you want... The sadest thing about all of this is that the bride "thinks" the bridesmaid is her friend, how about that...the both of you are screwing her over. Are you two sick???
2007-09-28 00:11:19 · answer #3 · answered by lucylocket7258 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man! you should have had the balls to break off the relationship since you started cheating on her. If I were you I would cancel the wedding. Marriage is a commitment between 2 people who love each other. What your doing showes a lack of respect towards her. Don't marry anyone if your not ready to have a lasting relationship based on love, honesty, trust and respect. Things which you show little of for her.
2007-09-28 22:46:48 · answer #4 · answered by pretty_kitty_vicki29 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant have your cake and eat it, or put the shoe on the other foot would you like it if she was having sex with the best man before the wedding and still want both after.
Do you both want a open sex life some people do.
But if your wife to be dose not know then I presume she would not want to have sex with 2 men in or out of marriage.
Think carefully,
Plus what dose the brides made want have you asked her or yourself come to think of it.
This could get very mesy and your familys would not be happy.
2007-09-28 03:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by KAREN F 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lets hope you get run over by a bus on the way to the wedding and have to spend a lot of time in hospital and end up losing the function of your bladder and then they both leave you because neither of them want to look after you.
As for the bridesmaid, i would love to see her married at a total loser who cheats on her all the time and doesn't come home for days at a time.
That's what I would say you both deserve!
Good luck to your girlfriend on her big day.
2007-09-27 23:46:08 · answer #6 · answered by Tanya M 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
Do not get married. This would be cruel to everyone that is involved.
You need to make a clean break from both of them. Step up and be a man. At this moment, you are being very selfish. Do not tell your fiancee about the affair, that will hurt her even more.
Do the right thing.
2007-09-28 00:34:40 · answer #7 · answered by Tadpoler 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my f*cking god! Are you for real? You absolute piece of sh!t! You disgust me. Do not go ahead with the wedding, she does not deserve that. She deserves to do much better than you! As for that s!ut bridesmaid doing that to her 'friend', I won't even say what I would like to do to her. You should both be ashamed. Total trash the both of you.
2007-09-28 00:06:50 · answer #8 · answered by BTB2211 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
With a question like this, you don't honestly expect your marriage to work if you go through with it, do you? You're a pathetic excuse for a man and she's a whore for being with you. Your fiance deserves better. Why she wasted 12 years of her life with you, I can't figure out. You need to call if off. If you really loved her and wanted to be with her, you wouldn't be cheating on her with on of her bridesmaids. SHAME ON YOU!!
2007-09-28 04:21:57 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay first of all do not marry if you are cheating already. If you get married now you will end up in divorce very quickly. Eventually everything will come out and she will find out and you are a jerk for doing so anyways. What is wrong with you?
2007-09-28 02:26:45 · answer #10 · answered by lilac27 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If this question is for real, you've answered it yourself.
If you've been screwing around with the bridesmaid, then the bride has been being deceived by both her fiance and her dear friend. Shame on you both.
Now put this poor bride-to-be out of her misery. And YOU will have to be the one to call all the guests to cancel.
2007-09-27 23:42:59 · answer #11 · answered by LJG 6 · 6⤊ 0⤋