my wife lost her twin sons, she lost them before she was with me, she had something wrong called twin-twwin trasnfusion sndyrome, but we want try again, my wife and i want a faamily with kiddss together, but I dont belive she can go through something like that again. what would you think?
2007-09-27 20:04:23 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
of course she should try again, its very unlikely that this tragedy would happen again
your wife suffered a huge loss, by having a baby could help ease that pain, xxxxxxxxxxxxx
2007-09-27 20:08:36 · answer #1 · answered by ROCKMUM LOVES BOWIE 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
TTS is only associated with having twins. Give her time and it will probably happen on its own. I know 3 people that had TTS and lost both babies because of it. But they eventually came around. She was already bonded with those babies even though they weren't born. I had 2 miscarriages before the 2 I have now. It wasn't easy going through the pregnancy thinking of what had happened and would Could happen. Maybe have her consult a doctor. If he can give her straight answers she'll probably feel better. Good luck.
2007-09-28 03:16:43 · answer #2 · answered by Kc B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i belive that she should try again.. the chances of here having twins again are slim and the chances of having the same problems are even slimmer.. she should seek counsling if it still bothers her...sometimes in life you have to let go of what hurt you and axcept the fact it could happen again but there are better things waiting for you so you have to take your chances..having a child would help her..it wont erase all the pain but it will help.. i too lost a child...it was very early on so i didnt even get to see what sex it was..it was very painful..and hard to axcept but its something she has to do..i wish you both the best of luck..
2007-09-28 03:15:19 · answer #3 · answered by misshotcakes2u 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are both ready, then definitely try again. The likely hood of having twin to twin transfusion again is very slim, so you should support her fears and her anxiety and I hope the both of you have a happy life together!
2007-09-28 04:05:04 · answer #4 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I believe every pregnancy is different & to try again would be a blessing. Twins are definitely a higher risk type of pregnancy to begin with & I am so sorry for her loss. I hope she will try again & not give up her dream of motherhood. Let her know that you are with her 100% will be there for her no matter what. Best wishes
2007-09-28 03:12:36 · answer #5 · answered by melmac 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i have lost a baby at 22 weeks and had 2 miscarriages but i have a healthy 4 year old son. i am sorry for her loss i know the pain. good luck and yes she can go on to have a healthy pregnancy
2007-09-28 06:46:14 · answer #6 · answered by kleighs mommy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Aren't you the same guy who is talking about being in love with a married woman? Is this the same woman? Dude, before you think about having kids with someone you had better get your stuff straight and have a stable and secure marriage to bring them into.
2007-09-28 03:40:15 · answer #7 · answered by wendysorangeblossoms 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to your wife , if she needs to maybe seek counselling first, dose twins run on her side or the previous partners side? speak to a doctor about the risk of it happening again try not to let her fear stop yous from what could be a wonderful experience for both of you
2007-09-28 03:09:47 · answer #8 · answered by knocked up again 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
So sorry to hear. Once your wife feels better, I would go for it, unless there's a disease or problem that would cause another transfusion syndrome. A new baby will definitely help her heal.
2007-09-28 03:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by schluyer33 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YES
The chances of this happening again are very slim and you guys deserve a happy family with kids!!
Good luck
2007-09-28 03:20:12 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋