There is this AMAZING girl who I .......?

Question

I am in 11th grade right now and I have like/loved this certain girl since 8th grade. She is stunning, amazing and I would do anything for her. I don't think that she knows i like her and we both have seen other people. I am really close friends with her and I CANNOT jeopardize that because I value that more than anything, but I want us to be more than friends. So I don't want to make any moves until i know that she likes me back, i feel like she couldn't/wouldn't ever like me, but I like to hope. I don't know if i'm taking this the wrong way but the about a week ago for the first time she asked me to come over and help her with english which of course I did but I couldnt figure out why she would ask me other than I am relatively good at english. Also she recently broke her clavicle and I brought her some get well gifts and have been visiting her and collecting her HW this whole week because she has been sick. What should I do? I think i should flirt more but don't know what to do?

Answer 1

LOL at the answer above mine. Sorry dude, but that doesn't work. hahah kinda corny, too.

Anyways I was in your exact position, I talked to this guy everyday on messenger for over a year. He didn't like me liek that though so I just kinda gave up. I wasn't being pursued.

Most likely you are making it obvious that you like her though. Tell her that she looks pretty at least and see how she reacts then if its good tell her that you like her a lot and you've like her since however long. Don't be afraid. It wont ruin the friendship it will make it better or it will stay the same.

Answer 2

Sounds like you feel you aren't ready for a relationship,
and you're probably right.
Don't try to rush one, those usually don't work out.
I'm going to give you some 'homework', yourself...
Maybe you'll even want to share some of it with her.
people who don't have the ability to support a family, aren't able to have a stable start at a relatioship. So, why not develop that ability, first? (That doesn't mean that you can't tell her what you think you'd like to happen in the future... Just realize that there's a lot of work to be done in order to get there. Too many kids make the mistake of assuming that everything will just fall into place, because they have such strong feelings. But, you can't take your feelings to the bank!)

Several of the things discussed in the following, online articles, I think you might find very helpful:

Answer 3

You're lovestoned and I think that she knows. Look, it’s all about the confidence. Life is a game. It’s called a confidence game. But what you have with you everytime you glance at her is fear. Now the question is: how do you nail the girl you desire? By installing the fear within her. With all the vital signs you have given me, it is clear to say that this girl is playing hard to get. And this is actually a good thing, because no matter what, girls like the attention even though you may think he is not interested in you. The best thing to do is always be yourself. Ask to see if she wants to go out to lunch or grab a quick bite to eat. Take her out to a movie or help her out with whatever she is currently doing (schooling, work, etc). Give her advice and make her feel special by being there by her side no matter what. For starters, if you wish to be sweet and calm as possible, tell her there is something on her cheek and that you want to get rid of it. She will obviously would like to know what it is, and you pretend to get the imagined dust particle off her face. Her question would be "What is it?" Your reply is: "Beauty" Works like a charm. Also, imagine that you are in need of the time; you approach her and ask for the time. She gives it to you and you say: "Wow, really? That late? Well, one thing's for sure, if beauty were time you'd be eternity." Well, if you wish to be more comfortable with this person that you yearn for, I would suggest for you to perhaps obtain her MSN address at best. The Art of Seduction is a difficult practise to master, but I shall give you a few pointers. If you do manage to go on a first date with her, I suggest you get her flowers and pull this one on her enclosed as a message within an envelope signed by you: “You should go and stand in front of a mirror and hold up 11 roses, so you would see 12 of the most beautiful things in the world.” It will make her go awwwww. Also, if you wish to show how much you care about her, I suggest you use the following tagline: “If I had a rose for every time I thought of you I'd be walking in a garden forever.” Also, try getting her lingerie as a gift. If you are not ready for that quite yet, just tell her that you simply like her. Believe me; girls go like “Awww, how cute,” when they receive lingerie as a gift. These of course should be used when you get to know her better. Writing a poem however is definitely a good way to kick it off, believe me. If you get all Shakespearean on her, the better. If you need more advice, feel free to contact me.

Answer 4

ok i was in this situation, i ****** it up, but i'll tell you what i did wrong, let her know how you feel but! dont rush her into an answer to give you i rushed her asking if she liked me back, i was way to clingy i talked to her all the time, give her space, and i dunno what else don't act like you like her more than anything in the world even if you do, if she says she doesn't feel the same way just lighten up the mood do NOT complain or ask questions and give it time she may come around

Answer 5

Paralysis by Analysis. You aren't going to make a move, so why are you bothering to ask us?

Answer 6

Ask her! Ask her if she likes you as more han a friend. Then you will know. Its simple.

Answer 7

Give her plenty of compliments, and make he feel special.

Answer 8

You're soooooooo sweetttttttt!!!!!! I wish there will more guys like you!!! I were you, I will tell her what I feel.... girls like me likes that. We appreciated guys who is courageble enough to tell their feelings to the girls!!! Good luck with her!!!