Ok, it was High School and no one there had a style or group that I would like to hang out with because we were a small h.s. Ok, I was talking to my "friend" on yahoo IM and he is telling me that we were never friends. That the peopel I talked to were not my friends, they were just talking to me because they felt sorry for me.
Ok, I graduated last year, and I told him...WOW! After all this time thinking you had a friend, saying that Im just someone to talk to. Ok, I told him if anyone elsetalked s*it behind my back and he said everyone! I told him if the girls did and he said that they still do!
It has been one frekin year since I graduated and still talking s*it about me. I told him on a scale from 1 to 10, how bad is it. he said that its 15! he said that its some really awful stuff. Ok, why would they still talk trash about me if its already one year off and why would they ever talk about me if I did nothing wrong to them??
How would you feel?
You think he might also talk?
2007-09-27 19:10:48 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That guy is definitely not your friend, and I think he's trying to hurt your feelings. I seriously doubt most people that you thought were your friends were just talking to you because they just felt sorry for you. I think this particular guy is the one talking sh*t and he's a real mean bastard. Maybe most people are not loyal friends and are being polite, but that applies to everyone, not just you.
2007-09-27 19:16:37 · answer #1 · answered by the Boss 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think he's full of crap. When you were in high school, did you talk about people who'd already graduated all the time? Why do you care what they think about you now? Making new friends is hard, but there's a big, wide world out there. You just need to find out where you fit into it. If they're still talking about you, they are major losers. It sounds like this guy was just either mad at you about something or pulling your leg. He sounds like a creep.
2007-09-28 02:20:16 · answer #2 · answered by Kay3535 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would honestly think what a bunch of losers. A year out of high school and you are still their main topic of supposed disgust? Aren't they all supposed to be submersing themselves in college or were they just too stupid to be able to do that so they are keeping themselves stuck in the past by holding on to the high school years? Tell that creep to get real. It is never that bad. I think he wants to try and bring you down hard and fast. Why? Who knows but sounds like he might have some type of a mental disorder. Either it is a really crappy place to live and the people are really that just that naive or else he is blowing it way out of proportion.
2007-09-28 02:18:48 · answer #3 · answered by vintagepink- 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It seems like a complicated question. But honestly, its very simple. And the answer is even simpler. Let it go. You graduated. You aren't there anymore. Why in the world are you worried what people you don't know.. people you don't see.. people who don't know you.. people who don't know anything about you.. people that don't matter to you.. why are you worried what they say or think? Hon... you will come to see that there is much more to life than always worrying about what someone is saying or thinking. That is just so petty. If you don't have anything positive going on in your life.. If you don't even have a shred of activity going on in your life.. if you have the time to sit around and worry about what people might or might not be saying about you... then you have wayyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy too much time on your hands. I'm sure you have heard the saying......... get a life. Well sweetie.. this time it applies to you. Get over it. My goodness, if I worried about anyone thought or said about me daily... I would be a basket case. Live life. Be happy. Find relationships with people of substance. People who are meaningful. People who know how to do more than just gossip about strangers. Wow, is your life that shallow? Take a step back... refocus.... and take off towards life again. Good luck!
2007-09-28 02:20:55 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would stop dating / seeing this guy immediately. Or (at the very least) stop being his friend. What he said would make me feel terrible, and I would definitely drop the other people as well, if I had any secondary confirmation that they were the same way.
Maybe this guy is just trying to make you feel bad, so you won't be part of that social group. Perhaps he and you are competing for the same girl's attention / affection. Whatever the case is, though, it doesn't look good. Genuinely cool people don't dump on their friends like that.
Find people who like you, and respect you for who you are. They are out there; you just have to make the effort to look for them. Oh, and ignore the people who don't like you. There will be plenty of those, and the faster you boot them out of your life, the more time and space you will have for the quality people.
2007-09-28 02:24:39 · answer #5 · answered by Marc M 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
of coarse he talks too , he already told you , you were never really friends. you just need to cut all ties with this guy, all hes doing is bringing you down and hes loving every minute of it. your not in h.s. any more so move on with your life make new friends, some that are more mature. screww them ppl they arent worth your time so dont give it to them, you are better then them, anyways your not the one being childish and treating ppl so badly, so just dont speak to him ever and watch how he will come running to you someday wanting the loyal friendship he knew all along you could give, but he stepped on. good luck
2007-09-28 02:23:28 · answer #6 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
How do you know this person is telling you the truth? Ask around.
Better yet move forward... you graduated and now it's time to move onto bigger and better things. Forget HS and the trival people. Go forth.. get educated, get a job, get experience. Who cares about HS it was a very small phase in your life.
2007-09-28 02:15:17 · answer #7 · answered by Miel 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend is trying to manipulate you and make you feel bad about yourself. Why would people still be talking about you a year later? Don't they have anything better to do?
2007-09-28 02:14:29 · answer #8 · answered by smokey virginia 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think his attitude is mean-spirited. His definition of friend may be different from yours. By talking to him, you're not getting an accurate picture of how your circle of friends really feels about you. They themselves are the people who are going to give you the accurate picture, not him.
What a mean guy.
2007-09-28 02:19:05 · answer #9 · answered by kathyw 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
be angry and forget all of them afterall they are not real people and real friends! and its a year ago, you better start erasing them in your memory....theyre now the past, history! be positive, you'll gonna meet a lot of people, just with the right attitude you'll win a lot friends...
2007-09-28 02:19:17 · answer #10 · answered by insecuregal 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋