I've told her 3 times that ive gone out of town for a week or two a time and shes still calling me repeatedly. Shes really nice and I dont want to hurt her feelings anymore then it already has. Whats the best way to end it and remain friends weve been hanging out for 5 months. She has some shady friends and i dont want to date her anymore since I found out about them.
2007-09-27 18:53:46 · 8 answers · asked by grind333ing 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shes a nice girl, but shes immature the way shes handling things and the people she chooses to be around-broke *** losers. Ive got a lot of nice things and shes kicking it with people (w.o too much detail) that i dont want to drive by. shes just not it and her friends might jack me i have guns and stuff but still. i found a shotgun shell in her car the other day kind of random.
2007-09-27 19:12:44 · update #1
shes only a booty call. dont stress it. tell her you met someone. get away from shady ****
2007-09-27 18:57:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This makes me sad. 5 months? It took you that long to make up your mind? You have definitely been dragging your heels. You obviously do not know how to communicate. I agree with the little white lie that you have met someone. She is a booty call. If you were clear about that status then she should know that the rules of booty call is that she backs off if you find someone. She dosent need to meet them or see them. You dont need to remain friends but if that makes you feel less guilty then fine. I would perhaps go farther to tell her that she was alot of fun and you wouldn't hesitate to call her if you find your lonely in the future, that will at least make her feel better about the situation...she will feel that she is still attractive and not have her ego bruised. Just never call her again, to be honest she will forget about you. Its only a matter of time. Well... hope it all works out for you hun. Take Care-Rachel.
2007-09-27 19:08:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she knew that she was only a booty call, there should be no problem. Just tell her that you have gotten serious with someone else, and feel obligated to be faithful to her.
If you were dishonest and led her to believe that she was more, you can forget about saving the friendship. Just tell her that you have begun to feel uncomfortable about the arrangement, and would like to move on.
2007-09-27 18:59:45 · answer #3 · answered by PEGGY S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just change your number and move on, it sounds to me like your alil scared of what her friends might do if you tell her to get lost. Do you think shed get those friends to get you if you dumped her, if so then just be as nice as possible and maybe make up something like you have a girlfriend or something. or just go stay with another family member for a bit til it blows over shell eventually get the hint....hopefully. good luck.
2007-09-27 19:03:01 · answer #4 · answered by Rºññèè 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont use her "shady" friends as an excuse thats just stupid. i think you're being a tad bit artificial basing a potential good relationship on who shes friends with.. is she a good person? i think you might wanna rethink that.. just a thought.. i could be wrong but still.. if there are other reasons then.. goodluck =)
2007-09-27 19:04:07 · answer #5 · answered by .:*BeAuTiFuL*:. 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave a Valtrex prescription on your coffee table.
2007-09-27 18:57:26 · answer #6 · answered by comfort eagle 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just tell her.. be straight up instead of draggin her along
2007-09-27 20:57:38 · answer #7 · answered by pandabear_222000 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what about her friends man? ur not gonna date them....Fluck them they dont matter
2007-09-27 18:58:20 · answer #8 · answered by Mczero 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋