me and my boyfriend have been dating for two years now but we have been on and off as my boyfriend didn't know what he really wants. during this time we had a lot of fights he disrespected me,he called me names, like ho**, ugly, he also beat me so many times, for no reason, he goes crazy when he is mad, he tried to kill us while he was driving, one day he threw a bottle of beer on my back, another he dropped me from his car and he took my phone and my wallet from me. we have been apart for 3 months now, and now he coming back apologizin for all the horrible things that he have done, everytime he talks to me he starts crying saying that he regrets everything he has done and that he is a changed person and he wants me to marry him, he said that he is willing to do anything i tell him so i go back to him. he has been crying fo 3 weeks now and i can;t stand seeing him like that and at the same time i am scared of what might happen in the future, i dont wanna go through any drama anymore.
2007-09-27 13:09:06 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has clearly shown his ABUSIVE tendencies. You obviously know this isn't what you want, or you would not be asking. You need to cut off all ties, and possibly file a restraining order. He will not likely change, and you don't want to bring kids in to this relationship. He can cry all he wants, he sure didn't care about YOU when YOU were crying, after all the stuff HE did to YOU! GET HELP NOW!!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-27 13:13:41 · answer #1 · answered by HH6 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
listen he is a creep, a little weasle, a little b i t c h, he thinks that he can just knock you around and treat you like crap and there be no repercusions? well all i have to say is you are doing the right thing, he deserves a little suffering after all the s h i t he did to you. When you see him crying and it bothers you I want you to think about that beer bottle getting smashed into your back or your phone and wallet getting taken from you. think of all the crap that he has done to you. Hes worthless and even though I dont know you I think you are better than this, you deserve better, and if anyone tells you different then they are lying. The last thing you should do is marry this little b i t c h. You are a brave, strong, powerful woman to have taken this for so long and I know you can withstand this final breakup, dont let your pitty get the best of you. You can do anything. I hope I helped......
2007-09-27 13:19:24 · answer #2 · answered by mr 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok first thing give him just ONE more chance and get him a theropest or something and if he still abuses u than dump him and if he still abuses u then get a restering order on him and if that won't work talk to the cops if u wan't him to leave u alone.And if he does good with a thearpost or something like that then take your time with him and tell him how u fell about all the drinking and the abuse email me if u need to talk to someone.
2007-09-27 13:19:32 · answer #3 · answered by trackchick980 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
there is no confusion the police will take care of for you --- he is in serious trouble --- abuse physical and mental stealing --- and you can get some counselling to help you realise that he does not truly care and will keep on hurting you until he injure you seriously or you do the same to him ---- best wishes
2007-09-27 13:18:43 · answer #4 · answered by trader1867 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
DONT DO It people can definitely put on a good show and sure this hurts but this is for your life and his well being
he needs counseling and you shouldnt even communicate with him until het gets it
2007-09-27 13:14:28 · answer #5 · answered by A heart full 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
This is in no way a healthy relationship, get away from him while you can. Good Luck! And dont listen to any of his bullsh!+. He sounds CRAZY!!!
2007-09-27 13:17:35 · answer #6 · answered by Skilow... 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Then don't.
He is he like a druggie or something??
Don't put yourself in a situation where you know you've lost before you've even begun. It just sucks.
2007-09-27 13:12:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
http://www.senior-chatroom.com/...
2007-09-27 13:11:14 · answer #8 · answered by little sparrow 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋