Yo, can someone seriously help me?

Question

I'm having trouble doing many things lately...like listening in school and doing my homework...im suppose to do those things cauz im suppose to go to university, but the thing is...i could live in my parents house for the rest of my life, so i really dont see the point. I guess im really lazy....but i need to want to do my homework and all those things, but i just dont get why i should...because im gunna die anyhow...i dont really see the point in anything seeing as were all gunna die anyhow...i think we should just have fun. i really need some motivation here....i dont know whats wrong with me...maybe i already have everything too good...i don't really like life...everythings just so boring, pointless, and stuff...maybe if i lived till 200 id see the point in doing stuff...but its just too short to wanna try. what should i do?? i know i should force myself..but ive already tried and just went to sleep.

Answer 1

I think you need to speak with a professional.

Answer 2

Okay....now no one knows when we gonna die. Now you need to get that "We're all gonna die anyhow" well don't you wanna die knowing you did something with your life? If your life is boring....hey do something different! Don't do the routine like not doing your homework and all. DO your homework get good grades, it'll boost your self-esteem. Don't you want to live on your own, where you can go clubbing meeting new ppl, parting, having friends over. What about a job, you start working and that's even more things for you to do. Next thing you could work up to a corporate job and maybe possibly own your own job and can get whatever you want. Then there is also that thing called marriage! Don't you want to find the person of your dreams and start a family, celebrate the holidays with your loved one and your kids? I mean there is just so much more to life than just living with your parents and being lazy. That's just not right. Oh and haven't you heard that saying....Live like there is no tomorrow! Something that could also help you too is go to therapy, maybe you could be suffering from depression. But there is just so much to life than just living with your parents with nothing exciting. I hope I helped you some! Take care of yourself!

Answer 3

i dont know how old you are but, there will come a time when a man need's to stand on his own two feet. the saying that the men are bread winners is very true. one day you will want to get married and seriously no women in her right mind will want a man who she will have to take care of. no women will ever look your way knowing that you will not or can not provide for her. your saying well thats fine i dont want to marry. well really there will be a time when you will and you will want to have childrem . you wont be able to if you cant provide for for your self a wife or child.

besides that a man is never concidered a man unless they can take care of them selves. you wont feel good about your self if you dont get up and do for your self.

your parents deserve a break as well. i'm sure they dont want there healthy child living under their roof for another 60 jeeze.

you need ot learn how to take care of your self. let me tell you this as well. 80 years is a long time when your sitting there doing nothing. 80 years full of life experience and knowing that you made the effort to be your own best friend is a life of contentment. i am 34 years old am i'm here to say that you really do get discontent when i havent done much for my self other then being a parent. i had fun went to the clubs still do occasionally but this gets boring after a while. i'm tired of seeing old friends from years past with these perfect jobs standing erect and sooo proud of their lifes accomplishments. i feel duped like wow what have i been doing all these years. i'm starting off late yes. but you know i'm doing things now which are taking steps towards the hope that one day i can look back on my life and say i did all that i have pushed my self to do. how great would that be. theres nothing more bitter then missing out on finding your own identity not really knowing your self. you cant possibley know your strenghts and weakness and strengthen those waeakness if you dont do right by your self.

well i hope that you can see that life really is precious. but, truthfully you never will if you dont expose your self to matters where you caa see if you can conqour and triumph. wow that sucks thinking that you wont give your self a chance to see what your made of. to see if you can stay afloat. clinging onto mommys skirts will make you a scared child for every and one day when your parents are gone (die) you are just going to crumble because you never took the chance to see if you cant stand on your own two feet.

well good luck i hope this will be helpful

Answer 4

honestly i would get an eduation b cuz livein w/ur parents 4 the rest of ur life doesnt sound like fun
gte into a job that u like make ur own money tew do ur own things and get married
i understand u wanna live a lil but ur most likely not gonna die
2-morrow
u should totally go 2 college hit the bar w/ur friends do some homework, hang out w/ a cute gurl and have some fun while makin a living of urself
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Answer 5

Overcoming depression tips:

Make yourself busy. We all need to feel like we're involved in something significant. We need to participate in something outside ourselves. You might consider volunteering at a local women's shelter or food pantry. That will elevate your mood as well as your self esteem.

Exercise is good for us, but physical contact is equally important. Exercise affects brain chemicals, and the healing touch of physical closeness does too. If you're depressed, hug somebody - anybody, everybody! A hug is good medicine. It reduces stress and tension and it boosts your immunity to illness. Hugs raise self esteem and lower blood pressure. They feel good and make people happy. And they're free! Hugs are the universal language that communicates love and acceptance. They're healthy for the "hugger" as well as the "hugee."

Take up a sporting activity like walking, cycling, tennis, golf, water sports, riding, gliding, sailing, football, badminton. Something with a personal achievement goal. Spectator sports do not count and have little value for the purpose of defeating depression. Like alcohol (with which they are often associated) and television, they are simply ephemeral distractions. Depression cannot exist when the adrenaline is surging. Try bungee jumping.

Avoid substances that are unknown to cause mood swings or depressionlike alcohol, caffeine, chocolate and high sugar foods.

Learn to laugh. It really will make you feel better. Visit a local joke shop or toy shop. Buy books and magazines that you find entertaining and amusing rather than just educational. hire a funny video and invite one or two friends round to enjoy it with you.

Build up your self-confidence. People who suffer from depression often lack self-assurance. Write an advertisement for yourself listing all your good qualities. Carry your advert with you and look at it whenever you’re feeling down.

Have a pet. The pet, however, be it a parrot, a cat, a mouse or a dog do not have this problem. They love their ‘master’ unconditionally and this is fully reflected through their behavior. It is much easier overcoming depression and making your way back to normalcy when you are faced with the exceptional love of a pet (or more). It was observed that people whom pets were given want to become better, want to become useful, want to love back and hence slowly escape the clutches of depression and return to their old selfs.

Talk to someone about it. A problem shared is a problem halved. Have you ever felt better by getting something off your chest? Of course you have. Did talking about a problem in the past help to put it into perspective and perhaps make it easier to deal with. I would guess you have probably been there too. Depression is no different. Find someone you can trust and get talking about it. Friends, family, your doctor, support groups both online and off....You might even find that someone comes up with an idea you have never thought of which just might work for you.

Answer 6

Yes you are going to die , but first, ,,, A reason to live,, well ..... lets just settle for enjoyment , every second that goes by is part of life ,,,,every second,,,so make it up as you go , every day create a life someone could actualy enjoy ,,mabey not you ,, but someone . then live it .. it won't be great , I meen after all how good could it be , with you as the creator ,, Just teasin .. :) give it a shot ,

Answer 7

try to find someone worth living for. Make yourself want to live until you're 200. Shoot for the one thing that you thunk is above you, and go for it! If that's not a challenge, You're screwed! :) good luck