I just want to be able to stop talking to him stop seeing him and just stop everything!! Why cant I? Is there anything I can do to help like "ween" myself off him?!
2007-09-27 12:56:06 · 4 answers · asked by Hannahbanana 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Focus on why he is bad for you. Whenver you remember something nice - immediately think about the bad things - then the nice part won't seen so nice.
Do not focus on the FANTASY of how perfect you thought he was at first. He SEEMED perfect at first - but later you realized that he was not right - concentrate on why he is not right - not why he seemed right at first.
There is a perfect guy out there for you - don't miss him by wallowing in sadness over losing the one who is not good for you. Be happy you are not stuck with someone who you should not be with.
2007-09-27 13:00:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When I realize i shouldnt be with someone, i try talking to then, and if they can't shape up, I find someone to replace them. Makes the transition a lot easier.
2007-09-27 12:59:36 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah. Tell your friends and parents that you're having trouble staying away from him and ask for their help.
TX Mom
2007-09-27 13:01:59 · answer #3 · answered by TX Mom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have you told him this. because if not maybe thats why... tell him, don't doubt yourself and after a few days then you'll feel better.
2007-09-27 13:00:45 · answer #4 · answered by mixed_brother 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋