Okay, so I don't really care, but my friend does. I'm almost 15, and she's 16, but neither of us have had a boyfriend! We are both pretty tall, I'm 5'8 and she's 5'7. Everyone tells us we're really pretty, and stuff, we both take honor classes, and get good grades, and we play a lot of sports. We have alot of guy friends, but no boyfriend, lol. Then, on the other hand, there's this super rude girl in our class, she has acne, and is around 5'3, and she has had a ton of boyfriends! Why is that? Well, thanks everyone!
2007-09-27 11:40:43 · 11 answers · asked by Melissa♥ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Lol, no, we're super outgoing, in alot of clubs, and have a ton of frinds, and she's mean and rude, and talks about people behind their backs!
2007-09-27 11:53:18 · update #1
I'm not saying acne is bad, I was just giving a visual description, geez!
2007-09-27 11:55:20 · update #2
I had this in HS too. Mostly it's because guys are not confident enough in themselves to ask a girl like you out, because you sound really pretty. After HS, in college, guys are so much more "out there" and just ask you out. You don't need a BF now anyway, they are all immature.
2007-09-28 19:03:44 · answer #1 · answered by ♥DCM 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Perhaps you have a reputation of some sort that you aren't aware of? Is there any chance people might think you're snobs or maybe too butch? You might want to try carefully observing the people around you for any clues to attitudes about yourself that you might not have picked up on yet.
On the other hand, try not to get paranoid about it.
You might also try breath mints, just in case.
Are there any boys you specifically like? If so you could do what a lot of girls do and have one of your friends tell him. Its not really a mature approach, but your only 15, so who cares?
Another thing you might want to keep in mind is that dating is really not all that much fun until you are old enough to drive. Otherwise, you have to ask your parents to drive you if you want to go to the movies or something. Also, you're not probably going to be able to do much on dates until your 16 and old enough to get a part-time job and make some money.
The rude girl has probably got boyfriends because she is "rude" enough to feel that it is ok to approach them and indicate that she likes them. This really isn't "rudeness", of course. But the chutzpah it often takes to be rude is also a characteristic that allows people to feel comfortable ignoring constraining social norms.
2007-09-27 19:55:36 · answer #2 · answered by Azure Z 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's just random. It's not like everyone gets a BF automaticaly at 15 or something. You, after all, could get a BF in seconds if all you wanted was a BF(just walk up to a lonely single guy).
2007-09-27 18:46:55 · answer #3 · answered by null_the_living_darkness 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give it time. You are still young. I would be willing to bet that the short girl with acne puts out a lot. that is why the guys hang out with her. Dont be that girl.
2007-09-27 18:44:13 · answer #4 · answered by twinturbo1994 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im not sure guys are shy they dont want to go out with someone like you right now they are confident enough.
2007-09-27 22:49:44 · answer #5 · answered by donielle 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
mybe they get shy around u and ur friend i mean to ask u out they will think u deserve beter
2007-09-27 18:45:38 · answer #6 · answered by la naca 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
lol. dont u hate that. i remmeber your age. Shes more forthcoming... Get in with the excitement... express those feelings
2007-09-27 18:44:01 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop worrying about it, its not the end of the fu*ckin world. also, stop bashing people with acne. you know they can't help it right? they got stuck with it because of their family!! i know people who shell out like around $500-600 dollars with medicine, dermatologists, etc. (my cousin). bad karma
2007-09-27 18:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
, You may be intimidating to guys, guys often feel that smart girls are to much work
2007-09-27 18:47:21 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
maybe guys just don't find you interesting enough. you should be more "bubbly".
no offense =)
2007-09-27 18:43:48 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋