Ive been rejected 2 times. Can u help me
2007-09-27 11:32:18 · 15 answers · asked by Dylan 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
You don't. YOU CAN'T EVEN DRIVE HER THERE? Where would you go, the pre-teen club?
How will you get there? What is this, shocks, pegs, LUCKY!?
I do applaud you for trying though. You are light-years ahead of your peers for risking rejection. Way to go, you've got balls. But here's the thing: you aren't mature enough to handle going out with a girl yet. Even if you are, they aren't. Believe me. It will just be stupid. Most of those girls aren't allowed to date. I'd wager that one of those girls probably said no just because she was SCARED. A guy asked me out in 8th grade and I was so shocked, I said no just to get him to go away, and I actually liked him.
I'd say at least wait until high school. What are you going to do besides hold hands, peck, and hang out? Don't be in such a hurry to grow up. I'd give anything to be your age again and just chill. learn how to be a good friend to girls before you start looking to be a boyfriend. Trust me. Seriously man, save yourself the trouble, but keep that courage. You'll need it. In high school girls LOVE to be asked out, but boys hardly ever have the guts to do it.
2007-09-27 11:35:39 · answer #1 · answered by Mrs. Eric Cartman 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd reccomend that you don't give up. somewhere out there is someone for you.
maybe try some other ways to ask girls out, maybe a hand written note if you're shy or find someone thats close to you and her and have her tell you that you like her. but NEVER under any circumstances, ask her over the phone or over the internet...and never have a friend ask her for you, she will not respect the fact that you are not confident enough to come to her personally and ask her out.
And also, you might want to slow down a bit and wait until highschool for this kind of stuff. girls say no alot because they might be scared, you should still just accept that they said no and offer to be just friends.
2007-09-30 15:54:01 · answer #2 · answered by DJ 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well the only true way to ask a girl out is in person. She will think your so imature if you have someone else do it for you or if you ask her over the phone because it is imature. Your probably scared to ask a girl in person, but dont worry everyone is like that. If you really like this girl give it a shot because even if she does turn you down atleast you will know she doesent like you and you dont have to waste your time with her.
2007-09-27 11:36:53 · answer #3 · answered by Roxygur1 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Middle school "relationships" are a waste of time. They usually don't even go out.
2007-09-27 11:35:51 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
Go to an activity with a group of friends and include her.
Keep in mind that she may not be interested.
2007-09-27 11:35:50 · answer #5 · answered by Steve B 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
just ask her, it's okay to be rejected when you findthat special some one they will say yes so don't worry.
2007-09-27 11:34:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try and know the girl and the ask her out. it worked for me
2007-09-27 12:39:42 · answer #7 · answered by Itachi Uchiha 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 words:
ask a different girl
2007-09-27 11:34:33 · answer #8 · answered by MSW2010 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
get a hookup...get a friend of hers thats your good friend and ask them to ask her...its great but does not always work...it doseent work she probably has a boyfriend
2007-09-27 12:32:58 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
*** on
if uve been rejected 2x just get over it....
maybe she doesnt lyke u yet/........
its ok though.......
have hope
my frne d rejected a guy......
he lookd really sad.....
so now she likes him n their going out.....
have hope
2007-09-27 11:36:38 · answer #10 · answered by Janet H 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋