My Sister and this weekend?

Question

Hello all, I am 19 and lately my older sister 24 has become very secluded and acting very strange. I am contacting anyone who can help me. I have reason to beleive that her husband of 4 years has physically hurt her and now is asking her to do things (of the private bedroom nature) that goes completely against her morals. I have contacted her family in the area and they won't talk about it and have choosen to take a blind ear and eye to it. I have contacted anyone I could think of! In her last e-mail to me she told me that she wouldn't be e-mailing me anymore for a while and that she was cutting off communication with a lot fo friends and family. I went to her myspace and she has turned her profile to private and removed all of her close friends and family from it. I know something is going to happen this weekend and I want to help her. What should I do? I live very far away am going to college and am in the military....so it's not like I can just rush to her aide right now.

Just so you know she isn't the attention seeking type nor has she ever done anything like this before. She never asks for help unless she is truly in trouble. She is one of those rare people who helps everyone and never asks a thing in return. She can't stand the thought of hurting someone no matter how badly they treat her.

Of course I have talked to her about it and if you had read her myspace page you would know that I am justified in asking anyone and everyone to help me help her. She will never stand up to anyone!!! In the many years I have known her she has yet to stand up for herself. Hell she was hospitalized during her pregnancy because she was so stressed due to her family (mainly her sister). My point is that I wouldn't be so concerned if she would let me know that is she going to be ok....in stead she told me that a man is coming to stay with her this weekend because her husband said he would. It is a long drawn out story there but lets just suffice it to say that I know my sister is in trouble and needs help. And yes she has talked to me about it.....she just won't do anything about it because she doesn't want to hurt anyone....in any way!

Answer 1

I do understand your concern about your sister Theres no doubt in my mind that her husband is very abusive toward her You are in a realy tight spot I congratulate you for protecting your sister Unfortunetly theres not much you can do I would contact her Police dept and ask them if they can do something Most probably there answer would be ;.;Theres nothing we can do but at least they will have a report and if something realy bad happen to your sister they willknow who done it . Also I will send her lots of materials on battered woman plus the phone number of a couple shelter and I will make sure it will fell in her hands Good Luck