It seems that relationships are the most important thing to you, especially young women. Help me understand why, for example, guys that don't seem very nice are important to you. If I am wrong, let me know, but so many of the questions deal with being in love with someone but he doesn't know, doesn't treat me right, has another girlfriend, treats me mean when he's with his friends, he's cheatin' on me. BUT I STILL LOVE HIM!!! What's up wit dat?
2007-09-27 10:54:39 · 7 answers · asked by morstar150 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i'm not in a relationship right now so the most important thing for me right now is making good grades and staying out of trouble and not get involved in the everyday drama of highschool
2007-09-27 10:59:14 · answer #1 · answered by MSW2010 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a really, really weird thing that goes in in most female brains. I seem to have a 1/2 male brain, have always apparently thought more like a guy so I think I can weigh in.
The cheating assholes broadcast virility and strength on some primordial kind of level. Look at him- girls all over the place, getting in to fights, ooh he gets drunk and hits me, how manly!
I don't get it either.
In many cases, though, I think that these women either have come to depend on the asshole for a feeling of security or self-worth (or both) or are too afraid to be without a guy.
Right now the most important thing in my life is helping my boyfriend in every way I can.
I'm doing independent study and I'm a nerd, so I just kind of accept academics as something that happens.
I'm in 10th grade.
2007-09-27 10:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The most important thing happening in my life is the possibility of dying because of a brain tumor, visitiing my dad in jail and helping my junkie mom get of pills, not to mention teaching sunday school and volunteering in Africa and raising money for Darfur. U probably shouldnt stereotype, not all kids are lovesick morons
2007-09-27 11:00:59 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i honestly don't know,
i've noticed that too.
i've haven't really been in love,
so i guess i shouldn't really say anything,
but i can't imagine being with a guy who i knew was cheating on me, or treated me badly just because i loved him,
it doesn't seem very right,
or fair.
as to the main question,
the thing most important to me now,
is experiencing new things (people, places, situations, relationships) and my education.
2007-09-27 10:59:50 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it has to do with feeling loved, they love a certain guy and even though they may not like us back, we still think that there is some good in them, it may seem like a longshot, but girls like to try and find all the good things in guys, and try to ignore the bad, so if a guy like u said is nasty when his friends are around but not other times, we think that it doesn't have to do with him, but his friends are influnceing him, so we think that its his friends that are corrupted, not him, and when "ha has another girlfriend" that means notthing to us! high school relatioships are so brittle, they usually never last long, so we wait until that guy becomes available, we can get to know him in the mean time and pretend like we just like them as friends, but once they are free, we could get to know the guy even better, and hopefully he would see that we like him
2007-09-27 11:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I still love my ex, but he cheated on me with my sistr. I absolutely hate him, but i still hav feelins for him. Its weird. The most important thing goin on in my life right now, is this totally hott guy (hes mexican so hes extra hott lol) likes me im pretty sure. He came to my lockr this mornin and walkd with me to my 1st period and he got upset wen he found out i hav a date type thing to homecomin all ready. My best guy frend is takin me as frends (i think).
2007-09-27 11:01:07 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u are so right. im a sophmore and i like a guy who
1. has a girlfriend
2. still flirts with all the girls
3. doesnt like me
i can honestly tell u that i havent the faintest idea why i like him! i want to get over him so bad. i think my mind knows i should get over him but it doesnt want to. somewhere inside of me i think he can change, but you know what, i actually dont think he can. hes one of those guys who might never mature. i also think i might like him because i cant have him. i want him to ONLY want me, which seems impossible since he just wants all the girls. hes a player, and im a stupid teenage girl :( atleast i can admit it :)
2007-09-27 11:01:18 · answer #7 · answered by Mousy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋