2007-09-27 10:53:37 · 21 answers · asked by Cinderella 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Depends if you want just sex or you want a lasting relationship . A great lover to me is a person that cares ,loves and shares their life with me . Someone I trust , someone to go to when I'm hurt or sad. Someone that is always there for ME . My wife is no hot sexy cute skinny women BUT I would not trade her for any HOT WOMEN .
2007-09-27 11:00:16 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone who loves you with all there heart, treats you with respect,puts you first above everything else and honors you as an equal in everything you do together. Someone who is not only your lover but your best friend as well.
2007-09-27 17:58:29 · answer #2 · answered by The Wižard 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
being yourself
the ability to adapt willingly
wanting to give
willing to receive
time
attention
affection
trust
special moments
caring
support
love
looking in the same direction
the other person feeling that you are the greatest
wanting to be in relationship truly
committment
desire
attraction
communication
happiness
openness
space
timing
kindness
cleaniliness
respect
emotion
feeling
a want to please
a giving nature
similar values
ability to compromise
caring
true feelings
being in the moment
not bringing the past with you
not comparing with another
politeness
enjoyment
passion
sharing with each other
liking the other person
good preparation
ability to listen
hearing want the other is not saying
honesty
2007-09-27 18:18:34 · answer #3 · answered by Astro 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I will speak as a hetero female. What matters most to me is that a man actually care what I like. And take his time. In that regard, older men seem better able to control themselves than younger ones.
Also, it helps a lot if he is a cunning linguist, so to speak.
2007-09-27 18:16:18 · answer #4 · answered by auntb93 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some one who's gives you good company, good sexually compatibility, great memories together, some one who can show their sensitive side to you, some one who listens, and most important, the spark of being in love, i think i covered just about everything.
2007-09-27 17:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by ARTY 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sacrifice and Service. That's what it comes down to. If you love somebody (or something) you will serve it. If you want to start loving something, serve it. If you want someone to love you, let them serve you.
Service doesn't mean only doing physical labor. It's giving time, attention, concern, effort, energy, to someone.
2007-09-27 17:57:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sexually? Creativity.
Emotionally? Understanding.
2007-09-27 17:59:11 · answer #7 · answered by ishootvideo2002 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Someone who knows what you like and how to please you... someone who is truly attracted to you and into you, and you feel the same for them...even better if you are in love!
2007-09-27 17:57:06 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
taking are of each others needs its all to do witj time and love and caring
2007-09-27 17:56:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
They have to know your needs and what you needs to be done to satisfy them
2007-09-27 17:56:41 · answer #10 · answered by Mr. Cellophane 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋