since i am bisexual i decided to date a girl just for fun...me and my boyfriend are very much in love but i think that some people don't think its right that i have a g/f and a b/f...wat do you guys think?? and try not to be mean about it i mean i am just having fun with my life.....me and the girl arent anything serious
2007-09-27 10:50:04 · 53 answers · asked by armychick4907 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
my b/f knows that i have a g/f and hes allright with it
2007-09-27 10:56:53 · update #1
my b/f knows that i have a g/f and hes allright with it
2007-09-27 10:56:55 · update #2
Being BI is not wrong - but being in TWO relationships at the SAME time (straight, bi, gay, whatever) is CHEATING!!!
There's nothing wrong with casually (as in ONLY sexually) seeing people of both sexes at the same time (just play safe ;) ) - but a RELATIONSHIP is STILL only between TWO PEOPLE!
I suppose if your boyfriend is okay with an OPEN relationship, then it's ok - but realize that this is a TWO WAY street. If YOU can have "casual sex" with someone else - then so can HE ;););)
2007-09-27 10:56:14 · answer #1 · answered by kr_toronto 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Funny how you put so much emphasis saying that the relationship with the female is "just for fun" or "aren't anything serious" and that "you are very much in love w/ the boyfriend" (which nobody believe since you show no respect for him or your relationship)
Since you care about what others think (and you are asking) I think you are a lesbian in denial, other than that there will be no need to make excuses about the lesbian relationship and put so much positive emphasis in the heterosexual one. Do whatever feels right in your heart, don't hurt others and don't care about what people think or say, leaving like that will make you miserable.
2007-09-27 11:16:48 · answer #2 · answered by YO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if your bisexual then you need to fulfill your want for both man and women, your young so have your fun but make sure that your girlfriend knows that your not serious about your relationship with her and sometime in the future you should make up your mind and decide who you want to spend the rest of your life, but in the mean time have at it!!
2007-09-27 10:58:02 · answer #3 · answered by Star City Girl 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of guy guys in school date girls to show people they aren't.
There's no such thing as being BI.your either
HOMO or STRIGHT.
Even gay men marry a women to show the
world there normal.
Give the girl a break and the shame when others find she dated you.if she finds out she should tell all her friends.
Having fun is not funny when you hurt
some for your fake friendship.How do you think the girls friends are going to treat her
Stay with your b/f and leave others alone.
2007-09-27 11:18:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well I think its fine if you like both girls and guys but you shouldn't be dating two people at the same time unless you have an open relationship with the understanding that you can date other people. If you love your boyfriend as much as you say you do then you shouldn't be looking for other relationships.
2007-09-27 10:53:36 · answer #5 · answered by burtonfan 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think its cool that you're having fun with your life. But I have to ask, do you think being so confused over your sexuality is healthy for the long run? I mean how long do you think this is going to go on? I think you should try and pull things together. Either you're straight or you're gay, the in between will only get you so far.
2007-09-27 10:54:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
of course its mean. as long as everyone knows whats going on and is okay with it, its fine. obviously, you are keeping people you care about in the dark. if you really thought it was okay, why don't you tell them about each other? if you can rationalize how it could be okay, why can't you explain it so they will understand?
the truth is, you already know it isn't ok, or you would not be keeping secrets from loved ones. for any question in life if you are making a decision where you have to lie to a loved one, you are not making good decisions.
2007-09-27 10:54:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
While I do believe that if you truly loved your boyfriend you would not need to be dating a girl "for fun", it is certainly your prerogative to do so as long as you are honest about it with both of them.
2007-09-27 10:58:36 · answer #8 · answered by xotoroxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go saucy girl!
As long as the other people involved know how it is, and all 3 of you are happy about the situation, then its fine.
If you are being dishonest with either or both partners, then yes it is very bad, selfish and unsafe.
2007-09-27 10:53:40 · answer #9 · answered by Tarsh d 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
but what if she falls in love with you...?
That would be just horrible and mean to her.
I wouldn't recommend that.
If you already have a relationship then I guess you don't need anyone else "just for fun".
Have fun also with the person you have a relationship with, and respect him. I don't think you'd like to find out he's hanging out with someone else either, would you?
Good luck.
2007-09-27 10:53:34 · answer #10 · answered by bloodymary24 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋