Okay my father and I have never really been close. But my step father has been in my life since i was in 3rd grade. My dad picked out a song for him and I BUT i want to do something for my step father and I.... I just dont no what. I dont want to hurt my real fathers feelings. Can anyone help me????
2007-09-27 10:14:12 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
someone's feelings are going to hurt regardless...so just enjoy yourself.
i danced to butterfly kisses because i couldn't think of anything else. two months later i go to a wedding where they danced to "my girl" from the temptations! i loved it!
congrats and good luck
2007-09-27 10:31:52 · answer #1 · answered by mender_bender2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good on you for wanting to include your step dad. So often step parents get left out, even tho they were more in the life of the bride/groom than the blood father.
Find something he likes, maybe ask your mother what his favourite song is.
I dont know that i would go with my girl, it is a lovely song but real dad might take offense. Just go with a nice song that is special to him. There might be a song that reminds him of the time when he met your mother and you guys became a family. It mite be really significant to him.
Good luck
2007-09-27 17:58:25 · answer #2 · answered by bluegirl6 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you might hurt your real fathers feelings anyways! but is this for a wedding or what??
well just pick a song out that you and your step dad listen to a lot together or something that reminds you of him and you! Hope i helped ! good luck!
2007-09-27 17:20:13 · answer #3 · answered by krystal G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think including both fathers at your reception is a wonderful idea. You can have the traditional daddy/daughter dance with your father and then have another to show the bond with your step-father. However for song ideas I have no idea, I would stay away from the traditional daddy/daughter dance songs as that might hurt your biological father's feelings.
2007-09-27 17:25:32 · answer #4 · answered by Zyggy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a Wonderful World - Louis Armstrong
2007-09-27 17:43:59 · answer #5 · answered by Suz123 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you can dance with both of them... you obviously care for both of them so why not?
as for a song i would suggest
My wish- Rascal Flatts the words are very nice and i dont think anyone would object
Good luck... and best wishes
2007-09-27 18:12:28 · answer #6 · answered by sport 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋