Some one told my boy friend that I was playing him for money and stuff like that and he said he might start believing it and its not true and I kind of have an idea of who told him and she was supposed to be my so called friend how should i handle this situation should i get mad at him for saying he believes it or break up with him for having no trust?
2007-09-27 10:04:50 · 5 answers · asked by tIERRA T 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If you guys are really into each other, you'll recognize each others true intentions. If you've done nothing wrong, and he's done nothing wrong, then don't do anything. Just prove to him that the opposite is true. If you wanna be mad at anyone, be mad at whomever is spreading rumors about you. Although, in reality, it's not really worth it to be mad at anyone over this sort of stuff. It only perpetuates the drama, and makes you look like you care...when if you were innocent, you probably wouldn't need to try so hard to defend yourself.
I'd say if the trust doesn't continue, then maybe your guy has some issues, and some action should be taken. But really, how do you expect him to act when faced with such an accusation? He has a right to at least question the validity of it. But, sooner or later, he'll know who's right...if it doesn't happen soon, give him the boot.
Good luck!
2007-09-27 10:11:29 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
none! First of all tell him that if hes going to be mad at that he should have some proofand with who you "playing" him with. You should talk to him and ask him why would he think that and if he dont believe you then what kind of relationship will work without trust? END IT!
2007-09-27 17:10:21 · answer #2 · answered by elkinluna_44 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to talk to your boyfriend and tell him the truth and confront your friend or the person you believe that did it.
2007-09-27 17:09:05 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
she might be trying to break you up because SHE'S the gold digger. have a long serious talk with your guy and let him know everything.you also owe this person a butt kick.
2007-09-27 17:08:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
go kick that girls ***. then he will see that you are going to fight if someone is spreading lies about your relationship
2007-09-27 17:13:08 · answer #5 · answered by Jon G 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋