me and my ex broke up 2 weeks ago?

Question

we broke up 2 weeks ago cus were constantly arguing he always says that he loves me still only i don't feel no love for him anymore is this wrong or is it just natural after being in a horrible relationship for 8 months

Answer 1

Natural, your mind realized that it wasn't healthy and probably started moving on long before you two broke up. This is good, it means that you have the ability to pick yourself up and stand up for yourself, move on before you even know it! Congrats, not many people do.

Answer 2

well i assume everyone is going to say that you should move on, that you don't love him. Well 2 things come to my mind. One is that you said you have broken up with your ex so maybe it is time to move on. The other thing that strikes me is that you are asking this question. The fact you are asking suggests that you are unsure as to what you actually feel. You've been hurt and you have been arguing. But he still loves you, you need to work out how you feel. Rest for a bit. relax and give it some time. When i go running and i don't warm up my legs hurt, i find it too painful to walk the day after. This doesn't mean that i can't walk it just means that my legs have gone through some trauma and need to heal. So does your head. Take some time to yourself and work out what it really is you feel. if you still love him, want to be with him then i suggest a relationship councilor, they will help you both sort out the problems. Remember just because something is broken doesn't mean it can't be fixed and that going back to where you began does not mean you've gone back to the start. find out how you feel and let him know, he's not a villan, he is been honest about how he feels to you. he cannot help how he feels just like you can't. Don't be hard on him. If you don't love him, give him the closure, he will be devastated but he will know where he stands, he deserves to be with somone who loves him, and you deserve somone too. Good look, for both of you

Answer 3

This fairy tale pretty much sums it up:

Once upon a time a guy asked a girl 'Will you marry me?'

The girl said, 'No!'

And the girl lived happily ever after and went shopping, dancing, camping, drank whole bottles of wine, always had a clean house, never had to cook, did whatever the hell she wanted, never argued, didn't get fat, travelled more, had many lovers, didn't save money, and had all the hot water to herself. She went to the theatre, never watched sports, never wore feckin lacy lingerie that went up her bum, had high self esteem, never cried or yelled and felt and looked fabulous all the time.


THE END

Answer 4

Move on find another, never go back, I have written a book about my ups and downs in life after falling in and out of love so many times, also divorced twice and had to move out that upset my kids and turned me to drink but now I no longer drink, so I did a book to help others out there, who like me was cheated and used, Publishers spent money to do my book and is out in 106, also on most book shops and sites in UK, so I am not trying to get you to buy my book but it is a fact it will help you, it is full of good advice and called, =
(A Serial Shaggers Guide to Internet dating, My 1001 lovers), By Me, Author Clive Worth, Published named it this to get it to sell,

Answer 5

It is natural for everybody who faced horrible situation in a long time. Just ignore him.

Answer 6

If you don't like him let him know and move on. Just because he still loves you it doesn't me you have to force yourself to love him back or even question it.

Answer 7

If you don't love him, move on and find someone that you can love with all your heart. When you find him you will know it.

Answer 8

It's the way it goes. Forget him and move on.