Me and my friend met two boys on holiday recently and they were really great company so we swpped numbers because he said that we were going to meet when we both got home i told my mum and she just laughed but, now that we are back home and they still want to meet us she like no way they could hurt you or rape you. I spent two weeks with this lad on holiday and he never talked about sex once he was really nice and down to earth how can i get my mum to let me meet him i mean if i was 20 and he was 26 there would be no bother about it then!
2007-09-27 09:09:55 · 42 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When you're 20, THEN you will have more sense to know what a man of 26 is thinking.Right now he has probably had a pattern of finding 15 year olds because 20 year old females don't want anything to do with him!
Your mother would have to have rocks in her head to allow this pervert to date HER 15 year old. Guys that age manipulate dumb little girls into bed. It's a huge mistake on your part to get started with this. It will not be pretty.
2007-09-27 09:29:12 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Demeanor 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I remember being 15 and thinking that way. Now that I am older I know better. There is a huge difference between 15 and 21. Much bigger than between 20 and 26. And I'll be honest, there is a huge difference between 20 and 26.
There is something wrong with a grown man who is interested in a girl as young as you. He most likely has dominence issues, is controlling, or is a pervert. If its not one of those things, then he is an immature loser who can't get a woman his own age, so he targets little girls who don't know any better. They all seem nice enough at first, trust me. Two weeks does not let you in on who he really is.
If I were your mom, I'd call the police. I know it the US it is illegal for him to attempt to date you, but in other countries the laws are different. In anycase, you should be dating boys your own age.
2007-09-27 09:17:22 · answer #2 · answered by kittiesandsparklelythings 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well for one thing it isn't the number of years between you, it is the fact that he is 21. There is no reason why a grown man of 21 should be flirting with a 15 year old girl. Your mum is right for not letting you talk to him i wouldn't let my daughter talk to a guy in the same situation. There is something wrong with this situation.
2007-09-27 09:22:45 · answer #3 · answered by onehotredneckmomma 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, there, you've answered your own question. Wait until you're 20 and he's 26. Then go meet up with him whenever and wherever you want. Short of that, your mom's right. Anybody can pretend to be normal for a while, but a 21-year-old guy who wants to hang out with a 15-year-old girl is up to no good.
2007-09-27 09:13:48 · answer #4 · answered by julz 7 · 4⤊ 0⤋
TRUST ME ON THIS ONE:
He's 21 and he wants to meet you... first of all, you're under age. If he really wants to meet you than your MOM WAS RIGHT!!. I'm 21 and i can tell you...my friends and I will NEVER go after girls under 18 because we know it's akward and we don't want to be called "pedophile". The reason he didn't talk about sex because he knows you're 15. He didn't want to make you feel uncomfortable. I'm sorry but I have to agree with your mom. AND the guy sounds like a pedophile...I'm sorry
2007-09-27 09:21:23 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
well when your 20 youre an adult. A 21 year old talking to a 15 year old is just plain creepy. Its one thing if it was friends of a family but a guy that old should not be trying to become friends with someone your age. Its just wrong on so many levels. Just find guys your own age
2007-09-27 09:14:23 · answer #6 · answered by boredatwork 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Thing is, age IS more than just a number when you're under 18. Any 21 year old who is interested in a 15 year old is not a mentally healthy person. He's too old for you. Let it go.
2007-09-27 09:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by pisceswoman87 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact is that a 21 year old looking to hang out with a 15 year old does have something wrong with him. They are usually out for one thing only (even if he appears nice on the surface). You should go out and do some activities with guys your own age.
2007-09-27 09:19:12 · answer #8 · answered by Confid321 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is called "robbing the cradle" I know you think that youre 15 and know what to expect but someday you'll realize how naive you can be at that age. A 21 year old guy is at a totally different point in his life than a 15 year old girl. Your mom isnt wrong in any way.....stick with guys your age!
2007-09-27 09:17:06 · answer #9 · answered by leslies850 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would your mom ever agree to let you meet a child molester?
Find someone your own age because I can guarantee you that this man is not who or what you believe him to be!
If he's 21 and interested in a 15 year old, there is something seriously wrong with him, not you, but definitely him.
Most likely, that "something" is the reason that he cannot get women his own age to have any interest in him.
2007-09-27 09:15:51 · answer #10 · answered by runninfool 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋