I need someone to save me...please?

Question

Ok right now I feel like jumping off the nearest bridge literally, can someone talk me out of it?

Answer 1

GRAB LIFE BY THE BALLS AND SAY THIS IS MINE AND I CAN DO ANYTHING WITH MY LIFE!!!!!! YOU KNOW WHERE SUICDE'S ROAD WILL END! WHERE DOES YOUR LIFE END? WHERE WILL THE ROAD GO!? DONT YOU WANT TO FIND OUT?

Suicide...please read. I found it on another side and I feel it is very important so if you have ever felt like committing suicide or you know someone who is thinking about it then please read this (or get the person who is thinking about committing suicide to read this) I know it¡¯s a hard subject to talk about (trust me iv been there) but life is short and there is so much to enjoy. You will get through it. You've decided to do it. Life is impossible. Suicide is your way out. Fine -- but before you kill yourself, consider these facts:

Suicide is not usually successful.

You know a guaranteed way? Ask the 25yr old who tried to electrocute himself. He lived. Bit, both of his arms are gone.
What about jumping? Ask John. He used to be intelligent, with an engaging sence of humor. That was before he lept from a building. Now, he's brain damaged and will always need care. He staggers and has seizures. He lives in a fog. But, worst of all, he knows he used to be normal.
What about pills? Ask the 12yr old with extensice live damage from an overdose. Have you ever seen anyone die of liver damage? You turn yellow. It's a hard way to go.
What about a gun? Ask the 24yd old who shot himself in the head. Now he drags one leg, has a useless arm and has no vision or hearing on one side. He lived through his "foolproof" suicide.

You might too. But .. who will clean your blood off the carpet or scrape your brains from the ceiling? Commercial cleaning companies may refuse the job -- but someone has to do it. Who will cut you down from where you hung yourself, or identify your bloated body after you've drowned? Your father? Your mother? Your sister or brother? The carefully worded "loving" suicide note is of no help. Those who loved you will never completely recover. They'll feel regret and an unending pain.

Suicide is contagious. Look around your family. You do have other choices. There are people you can help you through this crisis. Call a hotline. Call a friend. Call a doctor or hospital. Call the police. They will tell you there's hope. Maybe in a phone call this weekend. But what you're seeking could be just a minute, a month, or a day away.
You say you don't want to be stopped? Still want to do it? Well, then, I may see you in the psychiatric ward later. And we'll work with whatever you have left.

If you are reading this, steal it and put it in your site too. If you're seriously considering this permanent solution to a temporary problem, please find help. This isn't the way to go, you may think that everyone would just be better off without you, but have you ever seen a family who has lost a loved one to suicide? They're messed up, the parents usually get divorced, the siblings never talk to each other. This not only ends your life, it changes the lives of others around you, but not in a good way. There are people who love you, and people who have been through the same things as you, even though it may not seem like it at times. So please, seek help.


& I hope you have realized ;; Suicide's not the way out. there are so many other safer ways of dealing with your problems. Maybe you think it's easier to just die. But think of what you are giving up. you're leaving your family, friends, and all the people who care about you and love you. And maybe you're not even that old yet, you have to experience life, find true love, that kind of stuff. Killing yourself isn't going to help. That's just running away from your problems, it's not solving anything, it's not making it better.

I know i can't convince you to not commit suicide, but just please think about everything a little before you do anything.

There's always someone who will be there for you to talk things through even if it seems like no one is there for you. Everything will get better, and it will be okay.

So whenever you are going to pick up that knife, or razor, just think about all the people you are leaving behind, all the memories, and all the good times.

I guess sometimes everybody feels like they want to die at lease once in their life. And you think there is no other way, just read this over.

Remember:
You live to have fun, and joke around ;; Not to be depressed. I know depression isn't an easy thing to get over, but it is possible ..
Please read this all it may change your live for ever

Answer 2

It's pretty difficult to do this over the internet, when I don't know you at all. However, I would say that people I know - including myself - who have considered or attempted suicide and failed have later been very grateful that they didn't succeed. So that's the first reason not to - your life holds more than you are able to imagine at this moment. Secondly, everyone who has known you at all is going to feel absolutely dreadful - wracked with guilt, wondering if there was something they could have done. Part of you may well be hoping they will feel like this, but don't forget it will be EVERYBODY, including the people you aren't wanting to hurt. Thirdly, someone is going to have to rescue you or pull your body out and they are going to be traumatised by the experience - if they survive, which sometimes they don't. I suspect you don't really want someone else to die as a result of your actions, nor for someone you have never met to be traumatised.

Is that enough? Please, please, get help. You really are worth more than this.

Answer 3

Listen, if you have had a loss in your family, how do you think your family will feel? We all have those moments, but could you see your family and friends wallowing over a casket, wishing it was them instead. Don't do that to anyone. Don't do that to yourself. You deserve a lot, and you deserve to be alive. You want to save yourself, so if you feel the need to, go to the hospital. I highly advise you to. Tell a friend to get you in. You obviously know that you need help, and you are trying to save yourself. Do what is best for you and your loved ones. Admit yourself into the hospital. Sometimes its hard for us to do something like that, if you don't do it, I hope the best for you. Please don't kill yourself. Life is worth it. You have the will, just find the way. Message me if you ever want to talk. I'm sorry, I don't know alot about you, and I could be wrong in some things, but please don't do it. I wish I could help you more. Good luck. I wanted to let you know that my cousin was killed in a car accident, and my 17 year old neighbor died of cancer, and I want you to appreciate that you have life, when these innocent people do not. Worship your life and yourself. It is the hardest thing in the world for me to imagine how my family would be crying over me, even if we were in a fight. Love yourself, and be happy with yourself. There is all of the time in the world for you to figure yourself out, use it. Good luck, and don't do it.

Answer 4

I got a picture of you picking flowers... do you like flowers? Like walking through a field and leisurely picking wildflowers and putting them in your hair.

I don't know if that means anything to you, but you definately have more to live for. I wanted to die at 19, I felt like my life was over. But I can't imagine not having experienced everything I've done in the years since then. I really enjoy mountain climbing, and now I have a family and a relationship with God. Not everyday is a good day, but every day is worth seeing what it has in store. There is a purpose for your life, you'll find it if you try to.

Answer 5

If you give yourself another chance, it is certain that you will one day look back happily thanking yourself for it.

No pain is for ever. If it has defeated you just now, get help immediately - you don't have to do everything on your own. Ring a friend, a relation, someone you know, a professional help-line, go to the hospital, the shop anywhere and tell someone how you feel. Tell them in person. Tell them now. GO ON - DO IT NOW.

Answer 6

The way your day is going you'd probably break 2 legs, all your nails and end up wearing diapers for the next year.

Take a walk, get a "fun snack" a bubble bath and try again tomorrow.

Answer 7

that is a very long term solution for what is essentially a short term problem. Even a terminal disease is short term in comparison to suicide. Suggest you call the number one of the posters provided or look up the suggested website, or get yourself to a mental clinic to help you get past this temporary bump in your life.

Answer 8

I have those moments too...but, things will get better...maybe write things down that are bothering you...see if you can come up with some solutions....find a close friend to talk to, and have a good cry.....life sucks sometimes, but we all have to make the best of it...even though it's really hard....I always ask myself "will this matter in 5 years?" .......

hug to you :)

Answer 9

I wanted to kill myself about 2 years ago. I'm glad I didn't. In many ways, life is better for me now. It took the death of someone else for me to get the help I needed. Try to find counciling in your area,it works^_^.

Answer 10

well what good would it do...you would be the nightly news, and forgotten by strangers by tommorrow,..and I know you are more than that...We all get to that point of such frustration, that we feel like ending it all..but remember this, our trauma's sometimes, are meant to make us stronger, not weaker...you will make it through, whatever is going on in your life...you are loved, needed, and would destroy the lives of others, wether you believe that or not right now..Please...Pray to God, through Jesus, to give you the strength and knowledge, to go on..and let Them lead you out of this sadness...xxx