Question for the women regarding the Penis....?

Question

The problem ...
Some years ago I noticed a bunch of small bumps on my penis, and i freaked out about it and got it checked out. Well it turns out that it is something called "Fordyce Spots" ... totally harmless, not a problem in any way. they are just oil glands under the skin which tend to become bumps on some people, and the doctor said that it is totally common in men and it is nothing to be concerned of

Now here is my problem ... Even though it is nothing, it is still kinda unsightly in my opinion. I have always been self-conscious of that part of my body. It has not stopped me from having sex, but I have never let a girl go down on me because i am afraid that she will think it's weird or that i have some disease or something.

My question is: Is this common? Have you ever run into this at all? Did it affect anything? How do i make a girl comfortable with that? .... I am really tired of being uncomfortable about it haha, so please do tell your thoughts, one way or another.

Answer 1

Thank God someone else has this same problem. I have em too and have had them since i was thirteen. I went and got it checked out and the doctor said it was a common thing in men. How come we never learned about this in school? None of my friends have ever talked about this!It seems like alot of girls dont even know what the hell they are. This has been holding me back on my sex life, i am just too afraid that if i explain it to a girl she wont be interested anymore. I dont know. I dont what to do either.

Answer 2

Be upfront with a girl. Don't have it be some big suprise. Tell them exactly what you have said here, and say that it's nothing to do with anything that could harm their mouth, or any sort of STD. All you can do is hope that it doesn't bother a girl and she doesn't care.

Answer 3

a girl should like you for who you are