an honest question i just feel like every guy i get with is after one thing.. are they all the same?
thanks in advance!
2007-09-27 09:02:09 · 27 answers · asked by CoNfUsD, nEeD sUm HoNeSt AnSwErS 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ultimately, yes until they reach maturity. Until then, they're all little boys who let their little head do the thinking for them, to some degree or other.
When a guy is capable of actual emotional feelings and deep conversations, he's probably ready to commit.
2007-09-27 09:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by Miss Demeanor 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One of the problems we have as women is that we focus too much on what the guy wants. So what if all guys just want sex. Actually that's something we wont really know is true or not unless we ask them and trust their word. The thing we need to do as women is to focus on what we want when getting to know a guy. If we're not happy, move on before committing to a guy physically or emotionally.That way we can't go wrong.
2007-10-01 09:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys ARE interested in sex, every single one. Anyone who says otherwise is lying thinking it will help him get in your pants. Sex is for guys a NEED, just like food, water and air. But guys are by no means ONLY interested in sex, especially when considering long term relationships.
2007-09-27 09:12:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe yeah, sure sex is interesting, but i don't feel comfortable or i just rather not do it with someone i don't know. I rather have sex if i love the girl, i like her, i want to be with her or a strong connection.
Its true my friends wants to set a goal, example wants to get laid or sex before the age 21, they wanted to experience it. Yeah so be careful some guys just wanted to have sex, because just your hot and beautiful.
2007-09-27 09:07:53 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
At 28 ( keep saying 27 haha wishful thinking I guess) I am having the same problem, finding a man that's looking for more then just sex.
2007-09-27 09:07:45 · answer #5 · answered by SexyMamaTo3 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, just the idiots and jerks and perverts are. I've been with several guys that wanted to have sex with me and asked for it, but when I said no they took the answer and accepted it. There are some guys out there who are polite and will wait for a girl. I don't know what your case is, but in some places you might have to push and shove to find those guys but they are out there! Just keep on looking!
2007-09-27 09:06:59 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
honestly YES. honestly there are actually people who do enjoy sex and a good relationship, in fact it's' hard to separate these two. so honestly there are always jerks who only understand the basics because they are stupid and others who are mature personalities. but yes men do care a lot about sex and some women ...too. is that so bad?
2007-09-27 09:08:11 · answer #7 · answered by sarah kay 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all guys are ONLY looking for sex - but all guys I've know are interested in sex. I've met a few guys that were very clear that they wanted to get to know each other before deciding to take that step - even though they were clear that they wanted to take that step.
2007-09-27 09:06:36 · answer #8 · answered by lunasage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, there are many men that are just interested in sex, but there are very many more that want more, you just need to keep on searching, you'll find the right guy.
2007-09-27 09:07:16 · answer #9 · answered by Roho390 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well i think all men love sex or at least a good portion of them, but they won't all act on it. What I mean is that there are still men out there that seriously are interested in you for who you are and not for just your body.
2007-09-27 09:10:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋