I'm always so depressed, and i'm constantly told i'm worthless or something and my parents always fight and i'm failing school or at least i feel like it. so how do i tell them
please dont tell me to get help i live in mexico i dont speak the language, we're pretty poor, my parents dont really give a **** about me, i dont know anydoctors here i cant visit places in the united staes
2007-09-27 07:30:11 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Mental Health
then how do i tell them i'm depressed?
2007-09-27 07:45:36 · update #1
or is there any pill i can take that doesnt need prescrisption?
2007-09-27 07:46:31 · update #2
Do you have any other family member anywhere? My first thought would be to go to them first since you say that your parents don't care about you.
2007-09-27 07:37:15 · answer #1 · answered by littleone 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You're parents care about you even if you don't feel loved right now, a sense of isolation and despair are hall marks of depression. You're seeing the world through a negative filter and nothing you do seems right because depression can leave you feeling like a failure, depression is characterised by feelings of worthlessness. Comments that a don't even have a negative meaning are taken out of context as any criticism feels very painful and personal.
Sit down with them and calmly explain how you are feeling and that you need help. Perhaps there is a community health centre you could go to for free help and a school counsellor/nurse/doctor. If you are truly in danger, go the hospital emergency room immediately.
2007-09-27 07:40:40 · answer #2 · answered by Cat S 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
An easy way to express yourself to someone important (like your parents) could be writing them a letter, not an email or a typed letter, hand write all of your feeling down and leave the letter somewhere they will see it before going to school. You will have time to use your words wisely and they will have more time to think about the way you feel. Suicide will not fix anything but cause more problems. Life goes one, in the future, you chose where you want to live and what you wanna do. Remember you run your own life, try to make it worth something for yourself.
2007-09-27 07:40:12 · answer #3 · answered by vinn c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I dont know if telling them would do any good. First you have to realize they have problems not you. They are abusing you they are not just giving an opinion its wrong what they are doing. You dont deserve it at all okay? They do it to make themselves feel good cause there sick with low self esteem.
If you could live with a foster family it would be better and maybe youll get new brothers and sisters too! If they have an agency like child protective services then call them and try to get placed in a new home or adopted.
2007-09-27 07:39:38 · answer #4 · answered by theroadwetake 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off God doesn't want you to kill yourself so what you gotta do is think of all the people in the world that you love & the people that love you!! trust m hon, your parents love you so much if thet're hard on you it means that they love you deeply. trust me i had that same problem 2 years ago & last year. i'm not so fond of telling people that but if it's to help save your life then i'll do whatever it takes. i'm a christian now & well my life has turned comepletly around!!! so talk to your parents & tell them that you've been having those thoughts or talk to a teacher. & tell them that you would like to get involved with a church. you can research the net & find a religion that suits you!!! please don't kill yourself you're an amazing person & you were put here for a reason & that reason was to serve & worship God!!!!!!!!!
2007-09-27 07:40:23 · answer #5 · answered by Audrinalynn 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let them believe they are right, by "taking your own life."
Prove to everybody you are "not worthless" by helping all the
others who do love you.
Even if you are not loved. It doesn't mean you can't "love"
someone else "first."
You have "two things" noboby can ever take from you.
One is your "faith" in God, and your "love" for others.
Those are "Internal," and not physical.
when you have nothing to do. do something to help your
"mother" around the house and she will start to think different.
And your father will start to notice the difference also.
So keep fighting and prove your parents wrong.
Your school grades will pick up, because your happier.
Jessie. A love between a "mother and daughter" should be
very strong. A bonding. You are the one who will provide her
to become a Grandmother. That is important more to mom's.
God is there to help you, also. He loves you. Pray. ():-})>{+
2007-09-27 08:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-20 03:55:50 · answer #7 · answered by furne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry you feel you have nowhere to turn.
I would recommend maybe leaving a letter for your parents. Sometimes fighting parents don't see the damage they're doing. You could be giving them the wake up call they need.
Tell them how you feel, if nothing else, you'll feel much better!
They can get you the help you need - a doctor can give you great meds.
You can do it!
2007-09-27 07:41:51 · answer #8 · answered by Roland'sMommy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok well im really sry about your situation..
that has happend to me b4 to where i strangled my self with a scarf..not the greatest thing but killing yourself isnt the answer..
just get away from everything and let everything go..if u and your mom or dad are close reach out to them and tell them wuts goin on ..if ur not then go to a close friend and hang out with them for a while untill things get better but sriously DONT HURT YOURSELF..i dont even no u but i will be a friend...
so just tlk to me on here when ever u need something
♥Brooke
2007-09-27 07:36:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well you do need to tell someone. If you don't think your parents will be supportive you should tell someone at a school, hospital, friends parents or a hotline. That's a hard place to be in. I'm sorry! email me if you want to talk. I know how you feel.
2007-09-27 07:35:24 · answer #10 · answered by MDMA NO WAY 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋