My bf's ex is a total wack job. she treated him like a piece of trash and cheated on him. she still thinks she did nothing wrong to him and doesnt know why he was so mean to her at the end of the relationship. shes getting on my nerves cuz shes still trying to hold on to him by not signing over the car and writing him emails and posting blogs about him on her myspace. she knows i exist and she wont mention me or say anything bad about me out of fear. i just want her to go away and stay away. i want to be able to start a family and have a life with this man, but she wont let him go. she even had another bf and that guy cheated on her! so what, now she wants mine cuz he was a real man? someone please help me. for some reason i wont feel better until i know everything is done with her (paperwork) and i know shes out of our lives for good. and i dont want to have to hunt her down and hurt her. cuz i would if i could, but i dont think thats the best idea right now.
2007-09-27 07:12:11 · 10 answers · asked by shutupndrive 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i have more to add, first, my bf is my business. second, yes she has mentioned me. i dont go around wanting to beat the he*l out of random people, but this girl is infuriating. my bf and i dont need to be medicated. he has tried everything to get her to go off of the car. she wont do it. hes the one making the payments, so why should he give it up? he loves that car and he doesnt want to mess up his credit rating by ditching it. i would like real honest help, not people telling me to myob about my BOYFRIEND! so, please help. only serious answers. i know its drama, but i just want it done with and she wont cooperate with him to settle everything.
2007-09-27 08:49:45 · update #1
Oh Lord the drama with the xgirl...I went through that with my man's x and we almost got in to it cuz i couldn't take it anymore. if she fears you then make that work for her to stop the bitchen and sign the paper over. Give her a call and ask her to sign it or have him call with you there. She's jealous now the shoe is on the other foot and she can't take it! oh well she needs to grow up and get over it!!!!! If you know he is all about you don't let her get the best of you cus that's all she's trying to do!!!! Or you can send for a new title it's going to cost him but atleast you can get her out of your way for GOOD! naggin f'kn x's get on my last nerve.
2007-09-27 07:19:52 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you shouldn't be dealing with the EX...your man should! as far as the Email/myspace thing goes, all he has to do is block her and the problem is solved. If she keeps it up, contact the website manager, and they'll delete her account. He doesnt even have to read anything she sends unless he opens it. Who cares what she puts on her blog??? As long as he's not going onto her page, and your friends all know whats up, there shouldnt be an issue with what she says. He can take her to small claims court, and have the car issue resolved in a day. Don't go beating people up and threatening to hurt her, that gets you into trouble and makes you look insecure and stupid. what kind of messages is she leaving him? if she hasnt mentioned you, how are you for sure she even knows you exist? what if your guys having his cake and eating it too? he may be scared to hurt her, or might still have feelings, and as long as he makes her look crazy, he wont get caught? just tell him to go to court and get the drama over with. Change your email. and filter your myspace. easy fix.
2007-09-27 07:25:58 · answer #2 · answered by AgirlnamedAng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't deal with his ex. You have no need to have any contact with her at all. I'd make sure your b/f knows that.
He doesn't seem to know that he is giving her reason to think she can still get him back by not dealing with her. If he can't confront her and take care of business, then he's not worth your time.
Honestly, you both sound like you need some time on medication. You're way too concerned about what this "trash" has to say about your ex, and he's way too weak to approach her and deal with the last piece of business between them. How come her address hasn't been blocked? All it takes is blocking her. If she writes to him again using another address then he needs to set up a new account. Ta-da, problem solved.
Grow up.
2007-09-27 07:17:51 · answer #3 · answered by Serena 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't let her bother you. Eventually she'll get over it. She's lashing out at him for her mistakes. You can't expect a nutcase to figure that out quickly. Just keep your side of the street clean. If you get involved with or between this situation it will only create drama. Continue on with your relationship as if she doesn't exist.
2007-09-27 07:21:51 · answer #4 · answered by Helpless 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
OK OK OK.
Actually, the problem is you. If your bf really and truly wanted her out of his life he'd sign the car over to her, quit answering her emails and alert My-space about her blogs.
Since HE hasn't done this, he obviously LIKES having her in his life - for whatever reason.
That means he really doesn't love you with all of his heart - and you know this.
So, speak with your bf about this - and let HIM deal with it.
When/If he does handle things - and how long it takes - says a lot about what he really feels towards you.
2007-09-27 07:20:28 · answer #5 · answered by Barbara B 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You can actually do something about the online harassment. Check your state's criminal laws about harassment - cyber stalking and cyber harassing are included in most. You can also report them to customer service on myspace for invading his privacy.
2007-09-27 07:21:35 · answer #6 · answered by boots6 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your boyfriend is going to have to be the one put a stop to her behavior. He needs to let her know he has moved on and she doesn't have a chance of gaining him back
2007-09-27 07:18:06 · answer #7 · answered by migrainegirl1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hurt the girl !....just kidding ..as long as you know you BF loves you and dosn't care about her then don't worry everything will be fine ..just be a happy as you can be and that will make her mad !! h well she'll be over it !
2007-09-27 07:17:27 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
how can she mind her own its her boy friend dum *** she needs to let her bofriend know how she feels.
2007-09-27 07:18:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
"Hunt her down and hurt her?" Please. Grow up!
This is between your bf and his ex. He needs to resolve it. You need to MYOB.
2007-09-27 07:15:40 · answer #10 · answered by kja63 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋